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Number of ratings76 Number of reviews22 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 26, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 262 People helped73 Chats389 Group support chats17 Listener group chats8 Forum posts40 Forum upvotes51
Bio
Hi there! I'm so glad that you have found me here on 7 Cups of Tea! I am currently working on my graduate degree in neuroscience with a Specialized Honours B.A. in Psychology and Classical Studies. I have worked as a relationship and dating coach for quite a while now, but nothing makes me happier than to help people find and cultivate happiness with or without a partner! I would love to work with you to find that happiness in life, help with relationship troubles, or even just cheer you up on a bad day!

If you'd like to book a personal appointment with me, please click the link below!
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I look forward to hearing from you and a happy mental health! Cheers!
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Project Forty-Five
General Support / by emidee
Last post
December 31st, 2015
...See more It's that time of year again! An end approaches, as does a new beginning. We all like to dream big when a new beginning rears it's head, and new year's is the time when everyone resolves to quit this or do that...but did you know that less than 85% of people actually take their resolutions to the end of January? This year, let's get serious about making 2016 the new start we've been waiting for! What is Project Forty-Five? Project Forty-Five is about making it through the forty-five day hurdle; the average amount of time it takes the brain to forge a new "default" neural pathway. Because the brain is still operating on the old wiring as it's default, the first forty-five days is generally the biggest challenge people face when trying to initiate new habits or behaviours. In order to beat the January slump, I'd like to offer anyone who is interested free goal coaching and accountability. While there is already a wonderful thread in place above to pair off for meeting goals, I offer Project Forty-Five as an alternative for people who want that extra edge to start 2016 off right. In order to get you off on the right foot, I'd love to set up a 15-30 minute coaching session with you to clarify your SMART goals (and no, I don't mean you have to train your goals in astrophysics :P!) SMART goals stand for: During your first check in, we will hammer out the SMART details of your goal and make an action plan for how you can make the first forty-five days easier with implementation and avoiding backslides. The second thing we will do is set up a plan of attack for when slip ups do occur. It's inevitable, and they are one of the most common reasons why people give up. One or two slip ups does not a failure make unless you throw the baby out with the bath water and give up (an all too common reaction). If you do have a slip up, it's important for you to know that if you've already got 25 days under your belt, that doesn't get completely discounted! You don't have to start from scratch or from day 1! For 25 days, your brain has been rewiring and creating stronger and stronger connections towards the behaviour you want! One moment of weakness does not undo all of that neurocognitive growth unless you stop using it. In order to avoid that trap we commonly fall into, we will have a plan in place in addition to support from me anytime you need it; whether it be encouragement or emotional support. Finally, we will set up a schedule of check-ins that works for you so you can report your progress and talk about any bumps or problems along the way. It can be every day, every few days, every week...whichever best suits your schedule. This helps keep you accountable and it can be extremely helpful to know you've got someone unconditionally supporting and rooting for you! How to Get Started To get started, simply pick a time when you'd like to have your initial goal setting session and click the link below to book it.* [https://https//emidee7cups.youcanbook.me] *All times are in EST Once you've booked you've booked a session, just be online here at your booking time and we will initiate a chat session to hammer your your new year's resolution plan of attack! This week I am keeping my schedule very open to help anyone who is interested in taking part! Cheers to all, and a very happy new beginning!
Becoming a Chat Moderator
Group Support / by emidee
Last post
October 31st, 2015
...See more I am just curious how the process of becoming a moderator works. I took the test about 3 weeks ago and haven't heard anything one way or the other. I am just curious about the process and whether or not we hear anything back if we missed a few test answers. Cheers!
Referral Link
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by emidee
Last post
January 2nd, 2015
...See more This is probably an incredibly silly question, and I am sure it is listed somewhere, but where can I find my referral link?
Feedback & Reviews
Emily is a brilliant listener. I am feeling a lot better now.
emidee is smart and down to earth. Every time I had talked with them I feel motivated and hopeful that I can really overcome my problems. They make difficult things look more manageable which is invaluable in the times of distress. I trust them completely.
Awesome help!
she is the best hands up 5 stars she helped me right out really really nice to talk to.her professionalism is just brill




Listened to everything I had to say and helped talk about possible solutions to my problems. Many Thanks.
Emily, thank you for taking the time to listen and counsel me over my break-up. You were wonderful and definitely helped me gain better perspective about things. Blessings.
Great Person, really helpfull and likeable.
Very helpful
Emidee was sincere, knowledgable and a wonderful listener! She really helped me to talk things through and gain a great perspective that I had struggled to understand.
She is so caring and helpful. A special person who understands and helps soothe pain. She is an amazing woman who should feel so proud of herself, and I recommend talking to her if you want help. She's great!!!!!!
Our conversation was pretty basic; I needed a physical response to my tears and it helped.
Really knows what is talking about. I strongly recommend :)
Merci beaucoup.
Thank You!
Emidee is the personification of sunshine. Exactly who I needed when I was feeling down. Not only they Emidee cheered me up, they pointed out the positive in that experience, and helped me to keep progressing.
I really enjoyed our chat. First one that had made me feel better on the site.
very helpful and friendly chat!
the most helpful chat i had
Highly recommended. I'm feeling much better after talking to emidee! Thank you so much! :)
You seem like a wonderful patient person. Keep it up.
very patient and friendly
great!
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