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...See more Hi all, so I've been married to my wife for 8yrs this March, we've had our ups and downs over the years but that's normal (especially when you add that we both have our own mental health issues) so we were watch a show on amazon prime today and in one of the commercials that come on between episodes an ad for some show came on with an actress whoms voice I've always admired was in when I heard her voice I said "omg I've always loved her voice she my favorite (actress, for.her.voice)" my wife lost it on me I ignored it as I didn't want an argument as I didn't see how that was wrong to like someone's voice... Fast forward to the evening I woke up from a nap and she was being extremely cold towards me I asked if she was ok she said she was fine I hear up some food for myself and made tea and brought everything to the bedroom, went back out to say goodnight she yelled at me not to touch her and that I'm a disgusting f***ing pig and need to get help and think about if I really want to be in this marriage or not... My question is, is this like a normal reaction? Are am I in the right to feel completely angry and in dismay? I went to kiss her goodnight and she literally shoved me away, when I snuck o e in anyways on the top of her head she yelled DISGUSTING! How is that not supposed to hurt I've been NOTHING but faithful to her and been doing everything (and I mean everything) around the house for the better part of a year as she's been sick, yet I comment on someone's voice and I'm a disgusting pig and need to think about whether or not I want to be with her?? Please help...

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