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ephender |
Listener - Discoverer 2

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with (LGBT issues, depression, suicidal ideation, self harm, anxiety, panic attacks, bullying, adjustment). I enjoy eating spicy foods, learning about new cultures and languages, listening to rock, hip hop, rap, pop, and classical music, watching movies, especially on zombies, post apocalyptic, and scifi. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 62
Number of Reviews: 14
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, French, Spanish
Listener Since Nov 3, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 208
Cheers 28,070
People Helped 93
Chats 227
Group Support Chats 27
Listener Group Chats 3
Forum Posts 21
Forum Upvotes 20
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Feedback & Reviews
Thank you so much.. you’ve been really empathetic and listened to me ❤️
ephender was a great help! Very kind, compassion and easy to talk to!
Thank u
Out of the 4 people I've chatted with this is the only person who's acted like they cared about me and wanted to help me. They gave me great advice and made me feel so much better. I would rate them higher if I could!
thank you.
Youre awesome!! Thanks a bunch
You are just wonderful. You made me realize that I'm the only one who can truly help me.
Very helpful and exactly what I needed when things were hard. Thank you so much!
Caring and polite; tried his best to help me deal with things.
thanks for listening to me lol friend;)
Very understanding and helpful.
this guy is very smart, nice, and showed sympathy towards me.
Badges & Awards
Recruit Listening Ear Magnet Messenger Envoy Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Ellen Anxiety Depression Managing Emotions Surviving Breakups Self Harm Alcohol & Drug Abuse Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher Help Angel College Guide ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening ADHD Getting Unstuck 7Cups Guide 12 Steps Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II First Chat Five Steps Hang 10 Open Door