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exuberantScarf1822
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It’s just too much
7 Cups Online Therapy / by exuberantScarf1822
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 August 27th, 2021
...See more I’m not even sure where to post, my issue is a mess. Besides dealing with injuries, disability, lawyer, doctors, tests, shots, loosing friends, a dysfunctional relationship, and a million hours of other subjects I could ramble on about for months. But I need to talk about my daughter. I’m heartbroken. I found out some lies she’s been carrying since she was in school. She has moved and lives far away. She changed her name. We stayed in touch online but not to talk, just text. It never felt right but I let it be. We had lost contact for a couple years 18 years ago for 2+ years. I confronted her on some lies. So I didn’t want to loose her again. I didn’t question anything. She was being charged for child abuse a couple years ago. I was supportive, we messaged all day long. Offered to fly to be there to help, take the other 6 kids so she doesn’t loose them all, whatever I could do. She managed to have the charges dropped. I was pleased but felt somethings not right. In court my daughter claimed she was raised in the foster system, over 30 homes. They had no reason to contact her mom or family for a background check. I was concerned as to what to tell them if they had of made contact, I wanted to protect my daughter. But she was a pathological liar who needs special attention. I had still hoped they found the truth. Now I’m scared she got away with more than just her lie. She was never out of my care, she always had warm boots and shoes (says she grew up shoeless) she got everything she wished for, and never went hungry. It wasn’t always great but there was always enough. I was a single mom and tried so hard. It was all for her. She’s been online trying to redeem herself by accusing the system of harming her and her family. Speaking live at seminars. How they held her childhood in care and in poverty against her. They should have needed proof of that! But who lies about that? To a judge? I’m so ashamed for her it hurts. Now I have reported her to the authorities in her country. I feel horrible but I want her to get help. She’s become distant so I’m thinking she’s been contacted. She won’t want to text me to get my support through this one. She’s hoping I don’t know a thing. I don’t want to be there for her but I still feel sick to know she is going to hurt. I wish there was a way to separate your heart from your child. I don’t expect to be a real part of her life ever, I never was I guess. I feel like my life, my child, was stolen, by some cruel lady I don’t even want to know. I hope nobody understands 🥲 I don’t want anyone to feel this way.
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Vaginal evisceration
Women's Issues / by exuberantScarf1822
Last post
 July 1st, 2021
...See more Hi, I’m wondering how many have heard of this happening? I was looking for a reason to be having pains during intercourse. Now I think I’d rather just be alone lol. To explain to those who haven’t heard of such a thing. It’s when your vagina can tear and your small intestine falls out. It can happen on the cuff after a total hysterectomy. Especially with a vaginal hysterectomy, after menopause, and/or if your had diverticulitis. They should tell us about this when you have a hysterectomy. I don’t want to imagine how frightening that would be. A big bow for those who have gone through that x
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