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ferventflame
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PathStep 42 Compassion hearts10,375 Forum posts354 Forum upvotes523 Current upvotes523 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2024 Member sinceMay 4, 2021
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so many hopes die everyday

just need one to succeed 


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Songs - With love,
Music & Dance / by ferventflame
Last post
 February 22nd
...See more @ALeXaNdEr0712 Oof okay I hope I tagged you right (: It’s difficult catching you online, thought would leave a message for you here. Some songs for you, (you can share some too) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mOV4PKZgqOo [https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mOV4PKZgqOo] https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4hzKRNtT2h8 [https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4hzKRNtT2h8] Cheering for you, Miss ya With love Flame
Swimming and Self Harm
Self-Harm Recovery / by ferventflame
Last post
 August 1st, 2022
...See more I still struggle with sh and not relapsing, which got worse after I stopped swimming during covid and now since everything is opening up again, I just realised what I have left my body with. I can’t go swimming anymore . Just wanted to share that. Maybe some of you all relate to it.
Expressing my gratitude to @crang17
Positivity & Gratitude / by ferventflame
Last post
 February 15th, 2022
...See more @crang17 To the girl in the mirror and beyond ❤️ Hi! We have never talked before but I feel like I know you a bit. I don’t remember how I came across your profile a few weeks ago. I had to read it in breaks, I would tear up every time I read it. I have so many words to say, wont be ever enough or wish I could simply give you a hug. Thank you so much for it. I will try to type out my feelings for you and your words but ah won’t the have wizard flair with words as you have. It’s so beautiful, you are so beautiful. Made me a fan of the painting, a fan of you! *bows* I love portraits they are magical, window to the soul, but never could see Picasso in such a way, reading what and how it’s so close to you, broadened my view of him and his works. I thank you for that. I could relate so much to the girl on the leash and how you felt you throughout your time carrying other people’s expectations and how it feels to not own yourself emotionally. If only I could send you a flower expressing my appreciation and respect to you for every blister and scar you have got because of carrying the pain for being someone else’s . Thank you for writing that out, I couldn’t understand was it the amazingness of your words that I could feel each one of them so deeply within me or it was because I could relate. Thank you for understanding how it feels to not have freedom of your own, to be suffocated since birth. I really needed to read that. I have so much respect for you and I look up to you, hopefully one day I can have the same strength as you do to be so vulnerable with people and break away from the leash like you could. And converse with same authenticity and rawness. Thank you. Hope you are able to chase dreams of your own. Sending lots of love and my best wishes Your fan Flame ❤️ (Reaching out to you in a forum post because I can’t pm hope it’s okay to)
Reasons to live
Motivation & Accountability / by ferventflame
Last post
 December 10th, 2021
...See more Hi all ❤️ This is inspired by an old friend of mine, who loved lists. It’s just a list of things/ experiences that keeps me going, and mostly make it worth it to go through so much. My list :-) * Basking in the sun on late winter afternoons * Dancing in the rain * Dark chocolate * Feeding and watching birds and squirrels * Gifting a gift to someone * Going out running during winter nights * Hugging my loved ones * Listening to music * Planting and looking after trees * Playing in the dry leaves * Reading a new book * Seeing children smile * Standing in a windy storm * Swimming in the rain * Teaching and playing with kids * Trying out a new hat(not necessarily buying it ) So, yes these things help me wake up every morning. Would love to read your lists too, if you would like to share and that you are not alone in just struggling to be. We can only try to be there for each other. ❤️ Sending my best wishes to everyone.
Stars and Flames' Forest of Fireflies 🤍🌠🌁
Trauma Support / by ferventflame
Last post
 January 26th, 2022
...See more Hi everyone, its our forum thread where we will be posting things we wanna experience, when we both get independent, just our little forest of tiny fireflies helping us move onwards! 🤍✨🌷
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