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gigglingHyena
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Can I still miss him even if I’ve fallen out of love?
Relationship Stress / by gigglingHyena
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 October 12th, 2021
...See more I found out my partner had emotionally cheated on me, and that cut so deep. But I was willing to give him one more chance. It’s been over a month, and my feelings are nowhere near what they used to be. I find myself with these walls in place. I still care about him and want the best for him and can see myself forgiving him… but again, I don’t feel the way I used to. I question if I fell out of love, even though a part of myself is still with him and doesn’t want to let go. I just don’t know what to do. We’ve been together so long and my sister was helping me plan a wedding… for everything to change so much, I’m caught off guard. I hate imagining him with someone else, but a part of me just wants to be on my own again. I don’t really want to feel like I’m pulling someone along when I feel like I need to heal myself
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thinking about trying to work it out
Relationship Stress / by gigglingHyena
Last post
 September 27th, 2021
...See more i’m not sure what to do. i broke up with my bf after two years together after his ex messaged me and said he had been facetiming her when he was drinking and asking her to fly down to see him and have sex. he had told her he loved her and all these horrible things. i confronted jim and at first he denied it but then she described his apartment to me. then i knew it was true for certain. he said he only remembers contacting her four times that way and says he only wanted sex from her (we are long distance, and he said he called her instead of me because i’m so busy with college and blah blah). even after all of that pain and hurt he caused me, i still love him. and i often think that maybe i can forgive him. and he’s been working hard to help me regain that trust. he gave me access to his social media and he sends me notes from podcasts he listens to about recovery after cheating. he has taken full responsibility for everything and said he is willing to wait as long as it takes for me to earn my trust back. he hasn’t pushed me but is working to help. the thing is, i just can’t quite decipher my emotions right now. i see a future with him easily, but im not really happy at the present. but i also had a major fallout with a good friend of mine, so im not sure if that’s contributing to my distress. and my family supports me and obviously doesn’t like him at all after what he’s done, and they are so important to me too. i just don’t know that i want to picture a life without him. i will take any support or advice
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