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gmnb10
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Relationship Stress / by gmnb10
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 April 3rd, 2020
...See more I am of legal age and in a relationship with my friends dad who is newly divorced and he says countlessly how much he cares about me and wats to be with me. We have been messing around with each other for about a year and a half now and I want things to get serious because I love him. He hasnt told me he loved me yet and is afraid of commitment because he says he was trapped for 20 plus years and wants to feel as though he can make his own decisions and not have to worry what a women wants him to do. Ive asked him multiple times if it were possible for us to have a future together; move in together and etc. We make each other so happy and when Im with him every worry in the world melts away and I feel safe in his arms. He knows how I feel about us and every time I want to sit down and actually talk about our situation he avoids it and says why cant we just enjoy now. Im still young and have my whole life ahead of me, and I do not want to waste anymore time with him if he doesnt want to commit to me. He has said a couple times that he just cant picture a future with me, although he has said its possible and he doesnt care or worry about what others might think or say. How do I talk him into committing without upsetting him or ruining our relationship? I love him with all my heart and wouldnt picture spending the time we have with each other with anyone else.
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