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...See more Just for privacy, I’m using code words for the people involved: Chilled, Frozen, and Potato. We are both 17 and work in fast food. Me and Chilled started working together a few months ago and got super close. We would talk until 4 AM, and she’d vent to me about her past, her friends, and her mental health. She acted really affectionate—making me sip her drink, making sure I ate, and even hand-feeding me once. People at work kept telling me she was always watching me and talking highly of me behind my back. Then, a friend I call "The Brotha" told me she might have a boyfriend. I asked her friend Potato, who wasn't totally sure but said the boyfriend treats her badly and told me to tread carefully. Potato actually convinced me to tell Chilled: "I heard you have a boyfriend, and I don't want to mess anything up because I do like you like that." Chilled had never mentioned a boyfriend to me, only that she was going through a breakup when we first met. When I confessed, she said she thought I already knew she had a boyfriend, but hoped we could still be friends. I told her sure, but asked for some space to clear my head. The truth is, I loved this girl. I was hurting and had a really hard time managing my emotions. I ended up getting really hateful toward Chilled and Potato. The next day at work, Chilled refused to work with me. Instead, she only talked to a guy she had previously told me she absolutely hated and found creepy. At the end of the night, she tried to talk to me. I told her I couldn't right then because I was already stressed from getting texts from an obsessive, stalking ex-girlfriend. Once I calmed down, I asked Chilled what she wanted to talk about. She brought up a private conversation I had with Potato, which made me so mad I had a panic attack. Earlier that day, I had texted Potato about how mad I was at Chilled, and I'm pretty sure Potato ratted me out. Because of all this drama, Chilled stopped working hard. Our manager already disliked her work ethic and was about to complain to the general manager. I was usually the only reason the manager held back, but this time I didn't stop him. She ended up losing about 20 hours on the schedule. The next Sunday, Chilled refused to work with me again. "The Brotha"—who is still cool with everyone—told me Chilled was talking trash about me, calling me toxic and two-faced, and saying she hates me. It's weird because she used to tell me how much she hated "The Brotha," but now she's venting to him. Now, I can't even look her in the eyes or talk to her. I've never had anyone hate me this much, and I don't know how to act around them. I'm still cool with "The Brotha." I didn't want to talk to Potato, Frozen, or Chilled, but last night I actually talked to Frozen. We are cool now. Since Frozen and Chilled are cousins, I admitted to Frozen that I don't know how to act around Chilled at work, but at least me and Frozen are on good terms now. And despite all of this I just miss talking to her, I can fill in more details later just sent a dm.

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