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happinesstojoy
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she/her 17, from new zealand { online like 20 minutes a day or every two days }
PathStep 1 Compassion hearts263 Forum posts39 Forum upvotes77 Current upvotes77 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2026 Member sinceJanuary 10, 2025
Bio

My hobbies: i'm a beginner in the piano (grade 2) and cello (grade 1), i like drawing!! when using references :D i used to make crafts or origami. i love listening to music for 10-20mins or 1-2 hours a day cause it cheers me up heaps


(my favourite artists are Laufey, Liana Flores, Billie Eillish, Olivia Rodrigo, Clairo, Beabadobee, ABBA, Sabrina Carpenter, Frankie Cosmos, Mxmtoon, Chevy + there's probably another 10 song artists I really like though that I will add later)


What I'm working on: I try to be really honest (cause I'm an intp heh) about myself sometimes, open-minded about people's perspectives/opinions, kind to myself (self-love), and being more friendly to others. I'm trying to sleep (by 9-10pm) and wake early (6-7am) to get the healthy amount (8 hours) of sleep so I feel productive, prepared, at peace, and ready for the day. I try to be self aware of myself but I'm probably really hypocritical and give tons of advice that I never follow myself, but it's okay because I keep trying again ;D I want to overcome my stress, my inferiority complex, my social anxiety, my procrastination/avoidance and laziness/low-energy levels, my relationship with my family & friends, and study more consistently so my grades can improve!! (Also I need to fix my social cues, because I keep oversharing and popping into too many conversations I'm uninvited to (hence me sharing my opinion in so many forums)).

these things kind of match my mbti personality which is intp hehe :D  ^


fun facts: I have a tuxedo kitten called collin who is 7 months and I used to have a 6 year old flemish giant/dutch rabbit (named Oreo, gurl btw) as well as a 5-month old crab that I found on the beach. trying not to be chronically online, but i'm on youtube too much and quitting discord is hard... most of my days I'm just watching youtube, playing roblox, watching movies or shows, and on discord or here!! (trying to do my hobbies more, and being more active in my community this year which is nice) my school grades are really bad (only like c's or 50-60%) because I never study sadly (why did i out myself, because it's one of my goals this yearr!). i'm a huge procrastinator and a big overthinker (which sucks btw, thanks for asking). for athletic activities I used to do long-distance running and ballet (finished grade 8 & intermediate). now I do swimming for fun and I'm trying to learn badminton as well as running (haven't gotten into running yet tho).


my finished & favourite tv/animated series include: Bojack Horseman, Ricky and Morty, Hilda, Spy x Family, Brooklynn 99, Superstore, Never Have I Ever, The End of the F...ing World, 3 Body Problem, Severance, Loki, The Queen's Gambit, Htgawm (questionable title so i'm not gonna type it). I'm also watching Gilmore girls (s3) & Grey's Anatomy (s6) currently! I've only watched like 5 animes and 5 kdramas but they're really good btw. My favourite movies are Knives Out, 27 Dresses, The Truman Show, The Fall Guy, Upgraded, {Crazy, Stupid, Love}, Juno, The DUFF, and 10 Things I Hate About You (I love romance! I read so many manga's about it haha).


- so um this is a lot, but i'm so excited to talk to strangers because i feel so talkative these days! and i'm also trying to be an active listener so i will talk to anyone lol (I'm desperate sometimes)

- some weeks/days i don't have the energy to reply/talk and feel burdened by messages though (which is understandable and NORMAL right?) but i always try to message backk (eventually)

well thank you to anyone who reads this, I appreciate it :> because I had fun writing it .w.







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