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hardworkingTown9914
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 February 18th, 2025
...See more New here & feeling very confused. I’ll start by saying I was in a 10 year relationship, although we had a lot of financial difficulties we got on well like best friends but I felt like that was all it was in the end. He didn’t treat me badly at all, although we obviously had our arguments he did love me. I called off our engagement 6 months ago and moved out and have met somebody new who makes me incredibly happy. But I can’t stop the feeling of sadness. I feel like I am grieving him. I don’t hate him and I feel so bad for leaving him heartbroken when he’s such a good person. I guess I feel bad for doing what I needed to do to be happy. I don’t know if that even makes sense. Although I’m happier in my new relationship I just feel incredibly guilty as he did absolutely nothing wrong and I couldn’t give him much of an explanation as to why I was leaving other than I wasn’t happy and we felt like friends rather than in a relationship even though we tried to address it many times. i don’t even know why im writing this, I just needed to get it off my chest.
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