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Heartbreak
35 & Over Community / by helpfulVase1706
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 January 17th, 2025
...See more I started seeing a guy around 6 months back. We matched online but i didn't think much of it as I felt we didn't have much in common. But he pursued me hard and turned out to be this amazing, sweet, witty guy. Couple of months into dating he started having money problems and I was happy to help him out because of the emergency situation initially. But slowly he started expecting me to cover all his expenses. His rent, his food, his entertainment, everything. I was also exclusively paying for all our dates. It started making me uncomfortable and I told him I wasn't ready to take on such financial responsibility so early in the relationship. I also knew his parents were well off and can easily help him out. He never paid me back all the money I did give him. And last week he broke up with me saying he can never forgive me for being so selfish. I feel devastated I'm not a selfish person I just wasn't ready to cover all his finances 3 months into dating. Anyway he has blocked me everywhere now and I feel so confused about what happened. Any advice on what to do next?
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