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intuitiveEast2859
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weird friendship
Relationship Stress / by intuitiveEast2859
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 November 23rd, 2020
...See more Ive been friends with a girl (P) for the past year and we've become less close recently (she moved away). I would have considered her the closest person in my life. We knew each other through a mutual friend (let's say H). In the last few months, P has not stopped talking about how she hates H, who I still consider a very good friend, and how she is so toxic and there is something dark about her. They used to be very close. P has said that me not siding with P makes me a "peacemaker" and basically implied that I have no backbone, that I wont talk about H. It makes me so uncomfortable when P talks about H, and I know H has noticed how P acts to her as it is very obvious in a group. I have told P several times I am uncomfortable hearing her opinion on H but she doesnt stop. I feel like I am too old for such bitchiness and I feel like I am being looked down upon by trying to ignore this. I know that my opinion of P is going lower and lower every time I talk to her and I hate that I am losing what once was such a good friendship. Does anyone have any advice? I feel so uncomfortable with the friendship being the way it is and I dont know should I just let the friendship drift away. The discomfort of this relationship is on my mind a lot and I dont want that to be something on my mind.
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