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Depression Support / by justaplumber32
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 June 14th, 2023
...See more Do you ever feel like you just need a friend? someone to talk to about your day or about some random thing that popped into your head randomly that you can both laugh about or anything at all really and look and realize you dont have any friends or anyone to talk to? thats the hole i am in rightnow, I just want a friend. I am in my 30s and trying to recover from a divorce and they say the best thing to help during these times is to be around loved ones or people that are close to you and care about you, but what do you do when you dont have any of that? I call my mom once a week but its not the same as having that friend you go out with on weekends or during the week just to have fun and unwind after along day or week. what do you do when you realize how alone you really are and see who is actually there when you have truly hit rock bottom? what do you do when you hit rock bottom and look around and not even the crickets are there to break the silence?
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Site Updates / by justaplumber32
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 June 10th, 2023
...See more I dont Know if this goes here but I wanted to make a suggestion or ask a question really. I wanted to see if there would be a option to be able to chat with other member and not just listeners? I dont know if there is like a safety issue or anything like that as to why its not an option but I know alot of the members here have asked about it but if it were to ever come up or if there were concerns I would think that the one on one messages could bout monitor like the group chats are. Just a suggestion It would be nice to be able to connect with other members and chat.
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Motivation & Accountability / by justaplumber32
Last post
 May 31st, 2023
...See more Hi everyone! I am stuck rightnow with having zero motivation to do anything and I have a laundry list of hobbies I used to do but I can't find the motivation to do any of it. what can I do to get myself back up? any Ideas?
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when you know you are worthless
Depression Support / by justaplumber32
Last post
 May 11th, 2023
...See more I'm sorry Idk how this works or where I am supposed to post this kind of stuff but I am at rock bottom and I dont think I am getting back up... I realized how much of a failure I am and I have always felt this way but with how my life has been going it just makes it more clear.. I ruined my marriage and we were together for 10 years, I have always had depression and a laundry list of other issues but I never knew I had them because growing up if I ever wanted to fit in with anyone I had to hide all my feelings and just bury and ignore them and be whoever they wanted me to be so I could be accepted. and all of those issues and masks i would wear caught up and caused my wife to leave me. By the time I knew what was going on with me it was to late, the damage was already done. But now my wife has moved on and is seeing someone else and we are not even divorced yet, and when we talk all I hear about is how much better he is and how he does all the things I never did and that kills me and torments me to the point where I have to drink or cause self harm to get all the thoughts to stop but even then I still feel the same. No matter what when I am at work or when I talk to her or even sleep I am constantly reminded of my failures and everything that Ihave done wrong and I have to sit and watch as she is with someone else who is better then me in everyway.. How can I be so stupid,useless and pathetic when you are given a chance and your own mental problems get in the way and screw it all up and now I am just left to sit and suffer. This is really long and Im sorry but I dont have anyone to talk to or vent to, I dont have any friends or family, I am completely alone. I tried on here but never heard back from anyone so whats that tell you about me?
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Newbie Hub / by justaplumber32
Last post
 April 28th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone I am new here and not sure how all this works, I don't have any type of social media and don't go out much, so as you can probably guess I don't have many friends. I am just a giant cluster of issues and regret. My therapist said it would probably do me some good to be more open and make a friend so I figured why not try here where everyone understands each other.
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