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kkaous11
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts9 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2018 Member sinceAugust 31, 2016
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How to get over an abusive relationship?
Trauma Support / by kkaous11
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 July 30th, 2018
...See more Break Up & Divorce [https://www.girlsaskguys.com/break-up-divorce] i've been in abusive relationship for a year, in which my ex-partner abused me emotionally, and used me physically. coming to the conclusion they never liked me, and went through the whole thing for their own sake at the time. it took me a while to realize that, and a while to take some action regarding it, and to move on generally and start dating again. but it had a huge influence on my confidence and self-image, both had distorted greatly that i don't feel no self-worth or whatsoever. i don't have any kind of feelings toward my ex-partner, but am just mad. am awfully mad and mostly at myself for letting myself in that position. for letting myself get used and hurt like that and not being strong enough to stand up for myself and leave earlier. i don't know how to let go of this feeling and all the related, it's unending cycle of anger and self depreciating. have you experienced such a thing? did you manage to take it off your mind?
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I don't feel enough for anything or anyone?
Anxiety Support / by kkaous11
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 August 1st, 2018
...See more it's like am under qualified to everything i want/have. and sooner or later everyone engaged with me will realize that and kinda feel frustrated to be stuck with me and try to leave me or start looking for alternatives.
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Can't stop this obsession with my boyfriend's ex?
Anxiety Support / by kkaous11
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 December 8th, 2025
...See more i have these mixed conditions? i sometimes feel that me and my boyfriend's ex are alike, which makes me want to throw up and makes me hate myself. and somewhat i feel disgusted. at other times, i feel she's way better, prettier and all. and that makes my self-confidence decrease. i start to think poorly of myself, and self-hatred strikes again. sometimes i notice a resemblance in her attitude and my boyfriend's. since they had been together for a while. and that also disgusts me. i mean i always end up feeling sick. i want to stop comparing and i want to stop stalking her, i tried am awful at that. i need someone to slap me whenever i do and fuck i'm just too insecure these days. i don't want to talk to my boyfriend with that because like i really am not comfortable of sharing those ideas with him. but i'm really anxious all the time with that. help?
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