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...See more I have been with this guy for over 4.5 years. 2017 end was when we started. In 2019 he was in a bar and suddenly messaged me that he was drunk and he danced with a girl and he was sorry. He was very sad and miserable. I asked him if something else happened and he denied. In 2021 he told me that he actually tried to touch the girls breats and she denied and he snapped back and texted me. It took sometime to specially get over the fact that he had been lying to me since past 2 years. But he started putting in more efforts he stopped drinking started taking therapy. Now.. in 2022 he comes up to me and tells me that in 2019 he did it with a hooker. Had sex with a guy. Flirted with other girls. Went to a strip club and didn’t tell me about it. He was on his little adventure until he started feeling guilty. That he didn’t deserve me. Turns out this is why he started therapy. He started working for himself. Specially since past 1.5 years… he has improved A LOT! he put in hell lot of efforts. He didn’t give me any reason to complain. His therapist and everyone around him told him to not tell me.. but he said he felt guilty because he couldn’t take the pain that i was so happy when he hd this darkness inside of him… that I didn’t know him completely and he was keeping me in dark. Cheating again by hiding his true deeds. Right now… i have broken up with him… He wants a chance if it doesn’t effect my mental health. He is in a very bad place since last 1.5 years (i talked to his sister). Is it worth it?

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