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lavenderFarm409
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Feel stuck
Relationship Stress / by lavenderFarm409
Last post
 June 13th, 2024
...See more So I met someone not too long ago and everything seemed cool we exchanged socials and now that I want to reach out. I feel like “what do I say” it feels like I’m fumbling I always get like this when I meet someone who I like. It’s about a month since I seen them and now I’m trying to break the ice without feeling shy and nervous.
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I feel kinda stuck
Relationship Stress / by lavenderFarm409
Last post
 June 4th, 2023
...See more so I’m just going to get to the point on this one so basically me and a former partner of mine recently starting talking again about two months ago everything was going good at first then little by little they started becoming distant and it’s almost been two weeks since we talked and I wanna tell them if there willing to try things out again. But idk what’s the right approach should I just tell them straight forward? Even though the message is long?
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What should I do?
Relationship Stress / by lavenderFarm409
Last post
 July 20th, 2022
...See more My girlfriend is mad at me for not going to her bday celebrations and now she told me she’s not interested anymore. I haven’t seen her in a couple of days but i still see her checking on me on social media so I’m not sure if she’s just angry. I talk to her from time to time but when I do it’s a very dry conversation and at this point I’m not sure what to do.
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I need a solution or perspective
Relationship Stress / by lavenderFarm409
Last post
 July 22nd, 2022
...See more I got into a small argument with my girlfriend I tried reaching out a couple of days later and she didn't respond. Reached out the next day and she told me she wasn't mad that something seems off and said to not contact her. Her text message seemed off kinda like if she was upset about something so im not sure if I said something that probably made her upset during the argument cause she won't tell me I told her she sounded mad and to tell me if she is upset so I could know and I could try and fix the problem but she didn't reply back. And she blocked me on social media that same day. But I wasn't blocked before I reached out so I'm not sure if I reached out in the middle of her being upset and she just acted out of anger. haven't spoken to her after that so im not sure if she's giving me the silent treatment or what? So far I just been giving her space to cool down.
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I’m confused
Relationship Stress / by lavenderFarm409
Last post
 July 14th, 2022
...See more im not to sure if my girlfriend is mad? But we had a small argument I haven’t talked to her in four days. I reached out one time she didn’t reply reached out the next day and asked if she was upset she said no the message seemed aggressive if that makes sense.then I told her she seemed upset and she didn’t reply back. And she cut communication as well. But i seen that she still wears an item I let wear I didn’t give it to her I just let her wear it. so I’m not to sure if she’s upset or what? Any opinion?
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