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lavenderSquare2447
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PathStep 74 Compassion hearts58 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes10 Current upvotes10 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2022 Member sinceJanuary 25, 2021
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Nonchalant boyfriend
Relationship Stress / by lavenderSquare2447
Last post
 April 30th, 2022
...See more My boyfriend and I who are long distance, have been through many ups and downs. I broke up with him for not even a day when I noticed I was being emotional but recently I’ve noticed he’s been acting so nonchalant and doesn’t seem to care anymore, I asked him if he even wants me anymore and he said yes, so then I asked him why doesn’t make it seem that way and he replied because he’s scared of me leaving again and of me too :/ I don’t know what to do, I’m trying to best but he doesn’t seem to, he’s just too afraid but I love him a lot and I’m genuinely trying to do my best so we’re both fine
Getting Over a Breakup and finally learning to let go
Relationship Stress / by lavenderSquare2447
Last post
 June 4th, 2021
...See more hii so this is a positive one, just wanted to say what’s on my mind and how proud I am of my accomplishments. Me and my long distance ex broke up around January, and it affected me A LOT especially because of the timing (I was in a bad place mentally back then) and for a couple of months I was really depressed and I couldn’t get him out of my head and I always thought about him and the situation. It was a constant cycle of feeling okay to feeling like I’m back at the beginning. Healing takes time, you just have to take some steps towards it. I’m really proud of myself, I never thought I would be where I am now :)) it gets better
Back To Square One
Relationship Stress / by lavenderSquare2447
Last post
 April 6th, 2021
...See more So me and my long distance boyfriend broke up like 2 or 3 months ago, I’m healing rn but these past couple of days...have been rough. I feel like I was pushed back to square one. I was doing so well too :( I accepted everything that happened and I forgave him and myself, you know all the steps to healing but idk these days I’ve been feeling very sad. It feels like all my hard work was thrown in the trash. I feel drained. I know healing isn’t linear but I feel very trapped and exhausted right now
Online Dating Break Up
Relationship Stress / by lavenderSquare2447
Last post
 July 15th, 2022
...See more I just got broken up with my boyfriend this morning. I had sent him a text last night after he ignored my texts for 2 days. I finally got the closure I needed this morning, I felt happy. He had a lot going on in his life and I wish him the absolute best. But now, I feel empty. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how I can distract myself :(
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