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lekairu
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was i cheated on?
Relationship Stress / by lekairu
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 April 9th, 2019
...See more long story: my boyfriend at the time told me he told his best friend everything i said about her which was basically hey im not comfortable with her liking you and more about our personal relationship. he then told me out of the blue a couple of days later he was going to choose between me or her to date. i found out later he promised her a polyamorous relationship (a consenting partnership between more than two people) without telling me or without gaining my consent. i still think to this day he wanted to choose because he was in too deep and couldnt cover up his dishonest tracks. i basically told him to not bother because im breaking up with him for even thinking that i am an option to him. he starts dating her immediately and when i called him a cheater, he got all upset and and denies it and continues to tell people half the story to justify his actions. he says hes not one because he technically started dating her after we broke up - but after a lot of research and common sense, cheating has more than one face! but i dunno, im trying to get more opinions out of the people that i know so: what do you think? was i cheated on?
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