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Number of ratings86 Number of reviews47 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Japanese Listener sinceDec 28, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 491 People helped332 Chats1,110 Group support chats92 Listener group chats30 Forum posts74 Forum upvotes71
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Hey, did you know that when you smile, you can't breathe? Try it.


I'm just kidding, I just wanted to see you smile. You look amazing!

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Hey there! How are you doing ? My name is Saya and I am a college sophomore majoring in chemistry. I've had a collection of mental health issues from the past, and wanted to share my love and listening skills ahead to all of you. Besides that, I love working out, listening to music, and caring for myself. :D Nice to meet you! 

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★ Strong listening topics include Relationship Stress, Depression, Exercise Motivation, Loneliness, Personal health issues, Family issues, and Self Esteem issues.

★ I most likely will not take personal requests, and am rather on and off. 

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Recent forum posts
What goals are you working on today?
Icebreakers and Games / by lifegivesulemons
Last post
 August 14th, 2021
...See more Many of my friends have a set goal during this tough pandemic. Some people may find it hard to keep motivated to stay at home. Of course! We haven't been confined to be inside the house for this long, under these extreme surreal conditions! Several people I know have diet goals, mental health goals, and straight up silly goals all while maintaining the safety of public health (6 feet apart, minimal social interaction) Do you have a goal for this quarantine? I, myself, am working on my self image and working to get fit for college sports. How about you? What do you have in mind? If you don't have a goal, tell me your daily schedule you adjusted ever since online school started, or work at home, or whatever fits your circumstances. It's a really tough time now. But 7cups is your safe space. We love you for being here, and I'd love to see you interact with this post. At any time you feel very different from this sudden change of lifestyle, do not hesitate to knock on my 7cups profile and send a quick message! Just remember, keep calm. This will all calm down soon. Worrying will only get you amped up about things you don't want to happen, nor would it get you anywhere! Stay positive. Manifest that good things will happen and believe it will. Keep hopeful, and try to stay happy during this tough time. Everything will be alright.
Opening up
Depression Support / by lifegivesulemons
Last post
 February 17th, 2019
...See more Hi, I've never really done this before, and I hope that won't let affect how you see me... I'm a sixteen year old girl. I might seem normal like you. I probably am. I'm a loud teenager, and I run cross country and track. I have fun in life, or it seems like. It's interesting how the real me is the complete opposite of what I seem like. I'm loud to hide my inner me. Self insecure, hating myself me. I hate myself everyday. I hate how I look, I have who I am, I hate why I exist. But see, I never understood where that came from until maybe a year ago. Ever since when I was tiny, I've always been physically and emotionally abused by my parents. I would be threatened to be whacked with a frying pan sometimes. They whack, hit, smack, push, shove, pull on my hair, kick, and punch me when I did some wrongdoing and exaggerate it a little bit. They would call me stupid, demented, retarded, autistic, ugly, useless. But see, you don't understand how much those words mean to me. It might seem like I'm trying to get attention and pity, but it physically hurts me when I get called these names. I've struggled with self esteem too much and to be called those words hurt me like hell because it just gives me evidence that I'm not loved. They whack me for the mistake I am, and sometimes they tell me I am useless and I am not worthy to be here because I am just a waste of money. But my parents would be sweet sometimes. Actually, most of the time. It's just when I disobey that they exaggerate, and they yell at me, and if I try to prove them wrong, they think it's excuses and whack me, hit, slap, push, and everything else. So I believed it was normal, even though they would physically and emotionally hurt me, I thought it was normal because it was a way of discipline. I think because of her repetitive hitting, it caused me to get concussions sometimes. That's why I am really slow at schoolwork sometimes. You read these words and they might mean nothing to you. But they shatter me. Words mean so much to me, and being called names like this even with my parents hurt me so much, sometimes I feel suicidal. Sometimes I just want it to be over. Noone understood me when I tried to get help here, and that is what motivated me to become a listener, to help you all. Especially being a teenager where you hit puberty and you're already losing some self confidence, your parents just prove you right that you're worthless and I'm nothing but a useless little girl that I'm not depended on on my family. My sister doesn't help. She makes sure I'm always blamed for everything, but I guess that's okay cause she's still four. I'm not here to gain pity or attention. I wanted to open up, because this was a big part of me I've held from everyone. I don't tell anyone about my self esteem problems or my abuse I've always encountered because they'd view me differently, and a part of me is scared to see my mom in jail. I wanted to see people who encountered the same amount of hurt as me and I wanted to form a group of powerful people who overcame abuse. I'm stuck in this household until 18, but when I go to college, I hope the abuse ends. Until then, I must encounter the hate my parents have on me (mostly my mom) and I hope all goes great for you too.
Anxiety from Frat Parties
Anxiety Support / by lifegivesulemons
Last post
 February 5th, 2019
...See more I'm a listener, and I always get this question. 'hi, i was wondering if you have been to a frat party because (a significant other) has invited me to come with them' I wanted to make this post public, because yes, I haven't been to one, and I've also thought it should be an accessible post just because some people haven't been to them. Just share your thoughts if you ever been to them or what you would say if you were in my shoes!
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Very comforting, logical, great listener. Just exactly what I needed, truly thank you.
Amazing listener. I see reviews of people saying “best listener ever” but this is truly the best listener. They have helped so much and I can’t wait to talk to them again.
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Loved it! Awesome chat!
Doing the best you can
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She was amazing and relatable! Highly recommend.
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You're kind. Keep up the good work. Thank you for the happiness you bring to me. Hope you'll always find happiness.
Really awesome listener!! She was super personable :)
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Very nice and helpful
made me feel comfortable. easy to talk to.
Like coming back to an old friend
she’s absolutely incredible.
Quick response, made me feel better
Lovely person to talk to, had a lot of great advice on dealing with anxiety
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Helped a lot. Wise advises, good caring and solid mindset. Would recommand.
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She helped me understand exactly how I feel. She knew how I felt and made me feel better. SHE IS RECOMMENDED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
My depression felt so much better. I just had so much problems and less than 30 minutes she made me feel more awesome than I have ever felt in my life. Thank you so much. ilysmmm
OMG! She was literally the sweetest person EVER! She helped me so much and I honestly feel so much better. Thank you so much. Seriously
They were really great giving advice and getting into other peoples shoes, i really reccomend them!
I feel so much better after talking with lifegivesulemons. A lot of fun and very supportive.
Awesome listener!
amazing listener
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Helped me moved on very quickly. Highly recommended :)
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