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lightergait
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Number of ratings42 Number of reviews14 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 4, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 161 People helped65 Chats200 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts1 Forum upvotes0
Bio

Hi there! I'm a passionate and empathetic woman who loves to put smiles on people's faces. I've been through many hardships in life which reassure me that I can lend a very good ear and make you laugh again :) I would love to chat with you and feel like I made a friend by the end of it, knowing you will sleep just a little better tonight! Always remember to love yourself and, if you're finding this difficult, let me help you :)

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The person isn't who they say they are
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by lightergait
Last post
 August 31st, 2016
...See more What do I do when a Member is a 'catfish' and inappropriating talking to people to convince them into BDSM? My best friend found a Member on Fetlife (she gave me her username, I didn't ask for it) and told me the profile is fake. This Member has been saying things like "do you want to be my slave" and "would you share your partner". I don't want them doing things like this to other people. Shouldn't this person's profile be deleted?
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Feedback & Reviews
I have never used a service like this before but lightergait really helped me and listened to me without me feeling stupid.
I really felt on ease when talking to her. She is straight forward and gave me the attention I needed!
lightergait was extremely kind. her advice was cogent and compassionate. speaking to her and hearing her advice really turned around an awful night for me and i'm grateful to her and that this website exists.
lovely listener felt she really listened
Very nice and so fun to talk with! Feels like talking to an old friend, I might say!
Great listener, with a great insight into things, very very helpful.
She is pretty amazing! She asks the right questions so you can really discover yourself!
Amazing and caring listener, I totally recommend and am thankful to have met!
She listened to absolutely everything I had to say, even though it took forever. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to speak to someone so understanding and caring!
An amazing and kind listener. Really helped me sort through the issues and discover some solutions. Completely recommend if you want an understanding ear!
Great person. Very respectful
Kind and asked questions gave links to help full information guides :)
lightergait has a background in Psychology and is excellent if you are in need of advice on how to communicate with someone or approach someone with an issue. This listener is hands-on and worked with me to formulate a productive and effective message to my boyfriend who I'm struggling with.
Amazing listener. Asked all the right questions and made me feel so valued. Thanks for listening x
Categories
Managing Emotions
Bullying
Anxiety
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Family Stress
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