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Is there such a thing like a non-friend material? Why dont I have any real friends?
Depression Support / by liska
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 February 28th, 2015
...See more I know many people, have hundreds of friends on facebook I am friendly and talk to anyone.. why do I not have a real friend? I am married, my husband is my best friend, and at the same time, the only one. nobody else cares enough to be my firend, to meet for coffee, to talk to me about their life, cares about mine... i dont have bad realtionships, I talk to everyone, everybody seems to like me, but only as a colleague, coursemate... I became this desperate person for friendship when i seem to see everone as potential friend to be, but never works out. I need a friend so much, I feel so lonely... why dont I have anyone? I believe I can be a good friend, I care about others I am not judging, I am up for all the fun, I am always there if somebody needs me... but nobody cares..they do enough to meet up with me once a month? but not enough to be there anytime I would feel down, or not enough to trust me with their problems and secrets.. is there such a thing like a non-friend material? how absurd... but I went through high school, university with many many friends, but none good and real friends. I feel so lonenly after all these years... I have my doors open to anyone I am not picky. I am not judgind, no expectations////just want someone who I can trust and who would trust me, and we could talk about anything....
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ANTIDEPRESSANTS - anybody open minded? Doctor pushes it on you, family dont even wanna hear about it...
Depression Support / by liska
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 February 21st, 2015
...See more I feel like in the world, there are only 2 groups of people. 1st group is totally against antidepressants and 2nd one totally for it. Nobody wants to listen to your opinion and help you to decide for yourself, understanding that you have an opinion too and as much as you need help you also dont want to be pushed into something you are not comfortable with. I grew up in  society where antidepressant dont take any place. everybody against it and with an open mind, you can see WHY. Even Psychology doesnt have answers for mental ilnesses and depressions - wether its psychological, biological or what comes first.... and taking some "chemistry" to work in my brain? Thats so not natural, right, its dangerous and...I dont know.. but of course, when you have a depression and you truly dont know what else to do with yourself, just want to stop it and there is nothing that helps you, you have to consider antidepressants - maybe they can really help you. but then, I talk to my doctor and counsellor and they just push antidepressants on me. when I share my concerns, there is no place for them... when I tell my family what Im going through, they dont understand and of course they dant want to hear of the antidepressants... I just need someone that is open minded, who listnes me and dont push me into neither - taking or not taking them. Im so hopeless. On one side I wish to take them, on the other, I dont want to... why does nobody understand and everybody wants me to do what THEY think is the best and THE ONLY truth....
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