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Number of ratings26 Number of reviews20 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceOct 19, 2025 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 444 People helped139 Chats675 Group support chats133 Listener group chats84 Forum posts79 Forum upvotes170
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I am a open hearted and empathetic listener ready to hold the space for everyone the best I can. I am a psychology student and look forward to helping as much as I can. 























































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Finding Healing Together 🌿💖
Religion & Spirituality / by listeningcalico1055
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January 31st
...See more Finding Healing Together 🌿💖 Hi friends, Sometimes, our hearts and minds feel hurt or heavy. 🥀 We might feel sad, anxious, or stuck because of something that happened to us. This pain is real, and it's okay to admit you're hurting. Healing isn't about forgetting the past. It's about understanding our story, feeling our feelings 💧, and learning to be kind to ourselves 🤗. It's a journey;one small step at a time. As a Christian, I hold onto a beautiful promise from God's Word. It reminds me that we are never alone in our pain: "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."✨🙏❤️ Think of God as the most loving Healer. He doesn't rush us. He comes close to our broken places and gently wraps them up with His love and peace. He wants to help us heal from the inside out. So, if you're feeling broken today... ✨ It's okay to not be okay. ✨ It's brave to ask for help. ✨ Your feelings are valid. ✨ Healing takes time, and that's normal. You are safe here. This is a place to share, to breathe, and to remember that you are deeply loved and not alone. 💞 Let's be gentle with ourselves and each other. True healing mixes God's loving grace with the brave work of understanding our own hearts. 🕊️ Sending you so much peace, comfort, and hope on your journey. You are cared for. (My door is always open for prayer or a quiet chat. You are welcome here. )
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🫂 You Are Not Broken. You Are a Garden in the Winter. 🌱
Depression Support / by listeningcalico1055
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December 15th, 2025
...See more Hello, gentle souls. ❤️ Tonight, let’s talk about something psychology calls "Emotional Neglect" — but let’s feel it together. It’s that deep, silent ache of feeling unseen, unheard, or invalidated, sometimes even from childhood. It’s not always about what was done to you, but what was missing. That missing warmth can leave a chill in our hearts that lingers. 😔❄️ Maybe you were told to "stop being so sensitive." Maybe your tears were met with silence. Maybe your pain was met with"just be positive." And now,that inner voice has learned to whisper: "Your feelings don't matter." Please hear this: Your feelings DO matter. They are valid. That ache is real. 🫂 You are not a "problem to be fixed." You are a person to be understood. You are like a garden in the winter: things might look still or dormant on the surface, but underneath, there is life, roots, and the quiet, fierce will to grow again. 🌷 If this resonates, hold this thought close tonight: ✨Acknowledging your pain is not weakness. It is the first, bravest step toward healing. ✨Your sensitivity is not a flaw. It is a deep capacity to feel the world—and that will one day be your strength. Let’s practice together right here: 1. Place a hand on your heart. 💗 2. Take one slow breath. 🍃 3. Silently tell yourself: "This feeling is welcome here. I am here with myself." If you’d like, reply below with one word that describes how you’re feeling right now. Just one. No explanation needed. Let’s be witnessed. Let’s hold space for each other. You are not alone in this. We are here, sitting together in the quiet. We see you. We hear you. Your story matters. 🕯️ With gentle understanding, Your 7 Cups Community🌈💙 P.S. Remember, our listeners are here for you 24/7. You can always reach out for a one-on-one chat. No fear, no judgment.
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Around the World / by listeningcalico1055
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December 28th, 2025
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Let them see your depth 🌊
Motivation & Accountability / by listeningcalico1055
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December 1st, 2025
...See more You've been told to be strong for so long...but who told you that your softness wasnt a superpower? 💔 Let them see the calluses on your hands. Let them admire the spine you built from all the pain. 🦋 But let me see the quiet part.  Let me see the way your eyes change when you remember that old hurt🙅‍♂️  Let me feel the weight of the stories you never tell. 🤫 Let me hear the tremble in your voice when you talk about the dream, you're too scared to name.  I don't just want to victory lap.  I want to see the sweat from the fight no one witnessed.💦 I want to know the name of the storm that almost broke you.🌪 I want to trace the map of scars on your soul that taught you how to feel this deeply.🗺 Your resilience is given. It's obvious. It's in the way you still get out of bed. ☀️ But your tenderness...that's your secret weapon. Thats the part that makes angels weep and the mountains move. 😢🌄 Stop, hiding the very thing that makes you magnetic. Your depth is not a flaw it's your ocean, and not everyone deserves to get lost in it. 🌊 Comment with a "🌊"  if you're tired of hiding your depths. 
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Calico was super thoughtful and caring, he provided a listening ear to me and my PSTD trauma. I felt like I FINALLY had someone who cared about me. Like my invasive thoughts finally mattered. Takes the time to ask questions, or just listen. Is a long term listener. Thanks again Calico!
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A listener who really does take the time to listen without judgement and offers encouraging insight
He's an amazing listener. Takes time to listen to exactly what you're saying then also helps you break free of your anxious ruminations and look at things from a different perspective. Helps you to make your own decisions but also being there always. 5 stars from me. - Satvik
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