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Relationship Stress / by littleLime8235
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 August 9th, 2019
...See more Let me ask all your advice and if u think I did something wrong in this matter So, Ive had a friend for 3 years now. Last year alone I spent about 400 on her for mainly concert tickets because she wouldnt pay her own, I know I paid for them but like she never said thanks or anything then complained when we went to the concerts. She never made any efforts in the friendship, like I always had to call her first to talk to her if I hadnt the friendship wouldve ended a lot sooner. So were still in school and there was some days I would come in and she wouldnt talk to me at all and talk about the great times shes had with everyone else in the group in front of me which obviously made me feel shitty. One time we made plans to go out and I went to the train station (she lived about 5 minutes away) and she never showed up, she never like asked if I wanted to go and sit at hers because I had no house key to get home and it was pouring down with rain. Also, shes gay right and Im not but she continually questioned my sexuality and tried to make a move at one of the concerts we were at even though Ive told her time and time again that Im straight. She has a girlfriend, I had a party like a month ago and they came, so she (my friend) makes a move on another girl whos at the party while her girlfriend is standing in the hallway, then phoned me like 3 hours after the party and said the other girl kissed her (she didnt) so obviously she told her girlfriend that and she messaged the other girl and the other girl didnt want to start an argument so she didnt say anything (she has like super bad anxiety). So like 2 weeks ago, her girlfriend was on holiday, I was like well do u want to come to mine at the weekend? She says yeah and thats fine. Im coming into school on Friday morning and I texted her asking if instead we should invite the rest of the group to come out with us on the Saturday night, she says no I cant go Im going to my dads gig and the rest of the group is going. So Im like wot, I come in and she says did you see my text? Yeah the rest of the group is going, come if you want but I dont think its your thing now idk about you guys but thats not an invite to me, Ive heard her say that to another girl when she didnt want her at her party. So I was PISSED, I never said anything like at all I just didnt talk to her because whenever we fell out I was always the first one to message/talk to her so I thought Id let her do it this time. So its left literally a week,then she texts me right so Im like super mad still, everyone in the group has been feeling awkward. A few hours before she texted me I found out shed invited the full group out again after school and hadnt asked me. She texts me asking to have a conversation and I said no and told her to fuck off, like at this point Im so done, like u ever get that way where when you argue with someone and u just say stuff youve been dying to say for years??? Cos thats exactly what I did, I admit I wasnt very nice, but I had to look at everything Ive did for her throughout the years, never got as much as a thanks back and she wont even ask me out when she makes plans with everyone else, it felt like a slap in the face. She never apologised for not asking me, but then I find out last night shes been forcing her side of the story on people and leaving parts out and says Im in the wrong and should apologise. Shes angry that her friends still talk to me and are friends with me. Idk if I am in the wrong, like I know what I said was mean but I honestly dont take it back, everything I said was true, she was nasty to me for weeks on end and I feel like I havent done anything but put all the effort in and spend money on her. Like Im not saying Im any better for this but at least I said what I had to to her face because I know shes said stuff behind my back whereas I havent. She never sees her wrong doings and without fail its always my fault when it comes to her but she deliberately leaves out parts of the story and twists it when telling other people to make me look bad
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