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littleShade30
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Suicidal boyfriend
Relationship Stress / by littleShade30
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 May 26th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend has been suffering from PTSD for awhile. We have been aruging almost every day over stupid things and it stressed him out a lot lately which led him to be suicidal. His brother took him away to his place so that he can watch him to prevent his suicide. Also, his brother doesn't trust me or approve me as his girlfriend. It is a difficult situation for me because I cannot see him anymore until he gets better mentally, but I've been trying to support him and be patient with him. However, I found out that he has been lying to me about his ex. He had 8 years of relationship with his ex who knows about his past trauma history well and his brother reached out to her when his brother took him to his doctor for his suicide. They were all at the doctor's appointment together while I was at my boyfriend's place waiting for him to come back not knowing what was going on. Since then, his ex comes over to his brother's place to help him with his recovery. He lied to me about his ex because he was afraid of my reaction and losing me since he knows that I am sensitive about his ex because of their past history. I understand that he is in a bad place right now where he is mentally unstable and needs help but his lies are inexcusable and very hurtful to me. He keeps telling me how much he loves me and he has no other intentions with her and he needs me but I don't know how to take the situation with my insecurity. Should I break up with him? But I love him so much.
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