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lovingDrum8823
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I dont know what to do. Please Help.
50 & Over Community / by lovingDrum8823
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 October 24th, 2021
...See more I've been with my SO for about 4 years. He has DID. About 3.5 years ago an abusive alter took all of my ID and paperwork and banking card. I literally have nothing to prove who I am, nor can i access my bank account. Any money has to come from my so. He one of the kindest men I've ever known and i love him deeply. However, whenever i bring up the ID issue he winds up losing time and does not remember how important this is to me. Apparently this is a trigger for him. I dont know why. I have no relatives that can help me with this. My parents are dead. I no longer have any friends I can ask, either. At this point I'm so upset and depressed about this situation that I feel like I could lose my mind. Without identification I cannot get healthcare, vote, volunteer, get a job, get a library card, etc. I cry almost every day. How can I fix this?
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Spouse with DID
Trauma Support / by lovingDrum8823
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 October 8th, 2021
...See more Hello, I'm looking for a supportive space for people whose spouses or loved ones have a dissociative disorder. I've been kind of flying blind for the past several years dealing with the alters and helping him cope with losing time and both of us coping with some fallout from the alters actions. I need help on how to be supportive as possible while maintaining my sanity. Any ideas?
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Hello.
50 & Over Community / by lovingDrum8823
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 October 30th, 2021
...See more Hi. I'm a 52 yo divorced woman and sort of remarried mother of 2. I completely trashed my life so hard at age 45. Seriously. I got divorced, left everything I had and moved to the middle east. I'm not sure it's possible to fail harder. I didnt join ISIS or anything, I moved to Turkey to study art. It didnt work out like I thought. Anyway, I'm back in the US and after some really questionable decisions and choices I'm trying to get my head together. I have abuse and trauma issues along with ptsd, depression, anxiety, and adhd. On top of that my husband has DID so life gets pretty complicated. Soooooo, howdy!
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