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melsue84 |
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5.0 star rating

Hello! I'm so glad you've found me on 7 cups of tea. I'm a trained active-verified listener  here in the cups community. I like to support people struggling with everyday struggles life will throw us,  relationship's with others, emotion regulation, substance abuse, mental illness struggles, traumatic childhood's, loss of a loved one (Grief), etc. I enjoy writing in my journal, listening to music, hiking, camping, reading, studying things I want to learn. I have overcome so much in my life and can relate to a number of different things, and would like to help you listening to you. If I am online please feel free to start a chat, if i'm offline please send me a message and we can set up a time to connect! So glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 43
Number of Reviews: 19
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Oct 28, 2017
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 242
Cheers 37,931
People Helped 145
Chats 691
Group Support Chats 30
Listener Group Chats 20
Forum Posts 64
Forum Upvotes 69
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Feedback & Reviews
really great advice and someone you can totally rely on!!
Thank you, helped me at a time when I needed support.
Great - she really listened an understood
Awesome listener
She was wonderfully patient and inquisitive. I truly enjoyed talking to her
Beautiful, great listener
She did a great job listening and asking questions to make me feel like she was really interested.
Great listener! 5 stars
Incredibly understanding and supportive!
Good motivational talk
Very nice, respectful, and wonderful to chat with.
thank you
An amazing listener and person. Really empathetic and keeps following up with your problems. Understands what you’re going through and tries their very best to help you and push you to get more help. Also keeps checking in every once in a while to see how you’re doing. I can only imagine how traumatizing it must be for them and every other listener on here to listen to those who come here for help and explain their problems when there’s a high possibility that they themselves went through similar circumstances and yet they’re here trying to make our lives better.
She is very amazing, and is not only my listener, but became a great friend as well. I still talk to her from the beginning I was on here. She is highly compassionate, takes your serious, and will check on you. I highly recommend her as a listener.
Very caring and takes it seriously! She helped me through my issues and continues to help me through more! I'm so glad I found her on here! She's amazing!
Amazing help and very professional manner love this person If they get paid they deserve a raise!
First listener I found, and actually haven't really communicated with anyone else yet. There was no need to go further. Felt amazing to have someone so happen to experience some of things I was going through and here is a true listener! Never did I ever truly feel that unlocked emotions were forming a struggle with my head. no body. Deserves to bragging privelege anything and it's on the ground should be pulling in
Very kind and caring.
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Magnet Jester of Smiles Ellen Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Scholar Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Voice Help Angel Break-A-Leg College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Perinatal Schizophrenia People of Color Guide ADHD Social Anxiety OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Surviving Domestic Assault Getting Unstuck 7Cups Guide Rocket Listener 12 Steps Community 101 Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Reconnection Hero I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Weight Management Diabetes CBT Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Appreciated Fall 2018 Events Continuing Education
Questions Answered
What do you do when you have no passion or drive?
July 19th, 2018 7:27am
I have never felt so sad in my life. Why do I feel this way?
April 29th, 2018 1:07pm
At what point did you decide to begin recovery? And how have you dealt with the slips and relapses?
November 14th, 2017 11:05am
Is it possible to have a binge eating disorder but still be skinny?
November 15th, 2017 4:47am
Do the thoughts of self harming ever go away, even if you've officially stopped?
November 27th, 2017 10:30pm
What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
April 5th, 2018 3:42am
Is it normal to breakup multiple times?
November 24th, 2017 3:02am
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
April 5th, 2018 3:45am
I went to rehab or detoxed but my friends are doing drugs around me, what should I do?
November 27th, 2017 10:32pm
why do people think drugs are a solution to their problems ?
April 29th, 2018 1:13pm
After you lose your best friend, how do you know when grieving them starts?
April 5th, 2018 3:41am
How long should we grieve for?
April 29th, 2018 1:20pm
How should I help a friend (or a lover) who is dealing with parent loss?
April 29th, 2018 1:40pm
grief has really made me loose interest in things I used to love ..but do you think it’s wise to push past and carry on or shit it down and start something new?
April 29th, 2018 1:46pm
Why am I so scared of death when it's the only certain thing in life?
April 29th, 2018 1:25pm
I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
March 8th, 2018 11:23pm