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mike251
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Number of ratings125 Number of reviews26 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 15, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 333 People helped301 Chats1,020 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes1
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I focus on Breakups, College Life, and Traumatic experiences. I am an Internal Medicine Physician in the USA, and hopefully will be going into Gastroenterology eventually. I have been battling anxiety for as long as I can remember; however, I made a conscious decision to change, and have undergone a great transformation. I have good tips to help battle anxiety and negative self-thoughts. I am happy to listen, and love to learn from new people.



I apologize if I do not respond to everyone's personal requests. I get many every night, and I do not want to discount my listening by taking on too many at once.
 
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Breakup
Relationship Stress / by mike251
Last post
 March 5th, 2018
...See more I dated a girl I met through a mutual friend, and everything was going well. We were doing long distance (3.5hr apart), and seeing each other 2x a month, due to work schedules. This girl lived in my home town, so I was always willing to go back home, and she was willing to come up to see me. We had one issue, where we would not see each other in March, due to work schedule. However, everything was going great, but I get a call on Saturday evening that she wants to end things, because she said it didn't feel right. There was no forewarning at all.. She was planning a trip in April for her and I 2 days earlier, she was flirting with me, etc. I am not sure what to do. She called me on Saturday night after a day of drinking and hanging out with friends, so I was not in the best state of mind to comprehend this break up. She just told me that she has questioned some things, and jumped ship, because she did not think questioning things in a relationship was right, even though it is a natural occurrance. We left the conversation on Saturday saying we will talk Sunday (yesterday); however, I never called her. I feel like I should just drop it, but part of me feels like I need to reach out as well. I was completely blindsided, and our mutual friends couldn't believe it either. To them, everything seemed great too. They did not see any signs of failure. If anyone has any advice, I would greatly appreciate it.
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Really nice/helpful, non judgemental, may be able to get me through my relationship
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Down to earth listener, approachable and reasonable.
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Professional, honest and to the point. Thank you for listening. :)
So helpful is everything!! :)
It was very helpful. He gave great advice, and he really listened to what I had to say.
Really easy to talk to, great listener. Thanks again
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Mike251 was very attentive to my conversation. He is intelligent and uses his observational skills to continue searching for a better way.
Very cool person and helpful!
great guy 10/10
thank you for being real. great listener :)
He is kind and patient with me. I always feel much better chatting with him.
Smart guy. I started feeling more clear shortly after talking to him. Highly recommended.
Very patient and nice!
Best listener I've found on here. Thank you so much!
Helped getting a guys perspective
Really really friendly guy, incredible listener and putting things into perspective. Couldn't of asked for anymore if i tried.
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