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mossmonstr
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bipolar and PTSD :/

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I hate making friends that only want to have sex with me.
Friendship Support / by mossmonstr
Last post
 March 9th, 2025
...See more I've had friends who weren't like this in the past, but now I have none. I don't have anyone to call when I'm upset or bored. no one's house to chill at when we're both free. no one to be actually vulnerable with. What happens is I'll make friends and they stuck around, but stay surface level. we'll know each other for years and then it would come out that they have a crush on me, or have been wanting to hookup. In college, this was both of my "friends" (one who I ended up dating). They would keep shooting their shot after I said no. I had to drop out and move back home, met some more friends, and the same thing happened. They had a crush on me and wanted to have sex, under their specific conditions. then it expanded. I thought I was getting closer to people, then they would kiss me and it would go on from there. The thing is, people will get angry if you give it to them or not. If you don't after they told you they wanted it, they'll harbor anger. They'll sabotage any relationships you end up in. They'll blow up at you that they do soooooooo much for you, and you can't *** them?? not even one?? Then you do and then they don't want to talk unless you have sex. They act annoyed if you're not having sex. And everyone acts like you're crazy when you develop feelings because you're trained to Only have positive experiences around them if you guys are doing something. Then they get bored. Then you're the crazy one. I just want a deep connection again. I don't want to sell my body for emotional support. I LOVE SEX!!! I hate that that will always be the fuel to my unhealthy relationships. I view sex weirdly. When I set boundaries they're played as jokes "bc I'm a *** anyways". I just want someone to genuinely be nice to me.
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