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Number of ratings40 Number of reviews33 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 4, 2020 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 188 People helped92 Chats228 Group support chats195 Listener group chats164 Forum posts396 Forum upvotes520
Bio
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✨Hello, wonderful people~! 

I prefer to be called Tay or Mx.✨
 I chose to be a listener because I want to support and encourage people. I came on 7 cups due to things going on in my life. 7 cups has brought me joy and I just want to brighten someone's day even if it is just a little bit. I can often relate to things pretty well to some extent, depending on what it is. Helping others is like a coping mechanism for me. I just want to give support and hand out cookies, I'm looking forward to the journeys that are yet to come. 
 
❗Chats/Topics❗
I'm fine with casual chats, but supportive chats will come first. I do not take any of these topics as some are triggering: Sexual chats, domestic violence, self-harm, grief, PTSD, schizophrenia, bipolar, BPD, & cancer. You can find topics that I have experienced and are comfortable with under my bio - under "Categories". 

🎇 Availability 🎇
 (EST) Monday to Wednesday: Anytime | Thursday & Friday: 10am - 3:30pm | Saturday & Sunday: Unavailable

💜 Status💜
🟢 Green status means that I am fully online and that I'm taking 1-1 chats or hanging in support rooms. 
🟠 Orange status means that I am focusing on a chat, am busy doing something, or I am away. 
🔴 Red status means that I am not online or I am online & am not taking any chats. 

❄️About me❄️
 I'm 17, I love helping out when it is needed. I took a break from 7 cups for a while, but now I’m glad to be back!! I currently have a job so I’m not free as often. I'm Female and my pronouns are she/her. I'm really laid back and down to earth. I love doing graphic designs and art.

▪️ Quotes ▪️
"The damage life has inflicted on me has, in many places, left me stronger and more resilient" 
- Steve Goodier 
"You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."
- Martin Luther King Jr. 
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Hey there! 🪐Annyeonghaseyo to other new listeners and members. Thanks for reading my BIO!🪐
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Sapporo Snow Festival, Japan
Around the World / by mxmes
Last post
 February 8th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! 💙 Today is the start of the Sapporo Snow Festival, this festival will be going on from February 4th to the 11th. Some may know what this festival is and some may not, so @mxmes & @azuladragon34 will give some information about it. What is it: 🧊 The Sapporo Snow Festival is located in Japan, it’s mainly about snow and ice sculptures 🧊 It takes place in three different sites which would be Odori Park, Tsudome, and Susukino. Susukino is the smallest but it is said to hold about 100 ice sculptures and an ice sculpture contest! History: The Sapporo Snow Festival began in 1950 when local high school students [https://alljapantours.com/japan/special-events/shows-&-concerts/Ohio-Northern-University-Student-Performance-Japan-Tour/] built six snow statues in Odori Park. More than 50,000 people showed up, and it became an annual tradition. The first towering sculpture debuted three years later, and by 1955 the Self Defense Force began to participate with imposing designs. Every year, the festival saw increases in innovations and participants. It caught national attention in 1959 and world-wide coverage during the 1972 Winter Olympics. Now, it’s a celebration of art [https://alljapantours.com/japan/culture/arts-&-entertainment/modern-japanese-art/], winter sports, local cuisines [https://alljapantours.com/japan/luxury/dining/Japanese-Food/], and Sapporo’s relationships with cities across the globe. 2020 will be the 71st Sapporo Snow Festival~! What happens during the festival: There are a lot of ice sculptures crafted by teams across Japan. Some examples are sparkling white prehistoric animals, Disney characters and famous sights such as the Egyptian pyramids, Angkor temples and Matsumoto castle. At night the sculptures are lit up with colorful lights. Food and drinks such as Hot sake and mulled wine and all the usual Japanese festival food including yakitori chicken skewers, okonomiyaki pancakes, takoyaki octopus balls, and the winter speciality: crab nabe hot-pot are available. Please feel free to answer these discussion questions! ✨ This festival is annually held in Sapporo, Japan over seven days in what month? ✨ How many snow statues did the local high school students build? ✨ What are the usual Japanese festival foods? @1Vanillaicecream @AddictedTealover98 @Adeline12345 @AlwaysRedeemable @Angela243 @azuladragon34 @Bint @BleuPhoenix @Bosslady9601 @bouncyVoice4149 @bubblyblueberry89 @ClairePotato @CupidtheKingofLove @Daishy @dtanushree @Erica @fantasticDancer50 @frostyIris5554 @GeneralIroh @GhostLily @healingWhisper @herealways27 @iwishuwell @K87 @Kenn13chan @lyricalAngel70 @magicalPainting28 @miraculousheart9815 @MoonlightHelper1 @mxmes @NimoSayeda @orangeAster4 @peppapigisqueen08 @phantom25 @Redskyi @Resourcefulsouth @scarletSugar3797 @sincere5772 @SoMicha @StillPlanet @stjarnagrace @SunflowerOnTheHill @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @SweetTortoise @sympatheticCup6312 @TessMo @theheartproject @treeHugger7 @uniqueApricot19 @VerseArt @WelcomeToChat @whackamoo @YaboiRogers @Zulegirl
Mxmes's Group Appreciation Corner
Group Leadership & Development / by mxmes
Last post
 February 8th, 2021
...See more ✨ Hello and welcome to my group appreciation corner! Here I will be posting weekly with 5 people I appreciate. If you don't see your name, please don't think your not cared for there are many more posts to come. Everyone here is appreciated, you all are amazing and so supportive! ✨ Week 1: @kieran000 ~ Oh, haiii. Honestly you are just awesome! There's always good vibes when you come around, and I'm sure a lot agree. You're such a wonderful friend and co-host. You often make my day with your good humor, I couldn't ask for a better friend. You just being yourself gives off such a chill vibe as well, aha I really enjoy our convos we have and hope to have lots more~ 🏵️ @Mishi3015 ~ Hehe, you are so motivational and supportive. Even when you might not be at your best you strive to help others and that's truly amazing. You are always there lending a helping hand and providing comfort. I'm so grateful that I met you, I love that you often tag me in your self-positivity posts. I also would like to congratualate you again for becoming a forum supporter! 🌸 @Azalea98 ~ Hey there, Aza! I really look up to you, you inspire me to do better and keep moving forward. The support you give is wonderful, makes me feel cared for and like I've known you for a long time. You contribute a lot to the community and I would like to say thank you for that! Talking to you always puts a smile on my face, when you appear in the chatrooms it makes my day. Haha, you often try your best and I believe that's what makes you amazing. 🌼 @sarah0317 ~ Woah, like you're such a good friend. You were the first person I ever had an actually conversation with on 7 cups. We've known each other for quite a bit and learned so much about each other. You're such a strong, brave, supportive, and encouraging person! Anyone would be glad to have you as a friend. Your always there for me, and I'm so thankful~! 🌺 @CateGrace ~ Aha, Cateee. Everytime I see you in the chatrooms I get super happy and excited! Your so caring, kind, supportive, and just so lively. That starbucks strawberry refresher keeps making me want to get one 😂 <-- I just had to say that. Anyways, I have lots of cookies for you and hugs. I know I say this all the time, but your seriously an amazing person, I look forward to many more memories here with ya!🌻 I hope this makes you all smile, I appreciate all the love and support! Keep doing you and and keep being awesome. Hope you all are doing well!
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Feedback & Reviews
Amazing!!! Helped me a lot
Awesome listener, rock on!
so amazing this person is honestly very wholesome respectful
Great listener and helped me figure out what to do in a tough situation. I highly recommend them.
10/10 would highly recommend. Responds quickly and really helped me.
Amazing chat! Super kind and validated me as well. I'm so grateful to have gotten to talk to them💛
Tay is amazing she's super caring and so understanding.. Very quick thoughtful responses.. Thanks for being there Tay..
funny, loving, and enthusiastic
she/he listened to what i had to say and were really nice
They're a wonderful listener! They listened to me, and did not judge. They reflected back at my feelings, which I appreciate very much, because it made me feel connected to the conversation. Thanks for talking.👍
Honestly she/he is great. Really gets you and is very nice.
this chat was the most wholesome and comforting chat i've ever had on 7 cups, they helped me figure out my problem and comforted me the whole time. would definitely contact them again! thanks for the chat tay.
She's truly one of a kind. Loved chatting with her. She's really friendly as well. Much recommended.
Awesome listener!
Tay is really lovely and friendly.
Awesome listener
kind seeet funny
They were awesome and tried to help me with what I was going through
It really helped me, it was like talking with a close friend that you know would always accept you
a great person with a great heart!
Helped me calm down and look at my situation. Helped me realize that I need to see myself
i felt very listened
Tay was great, helped me and related. would recommend
Nice smooth chat, helped me calm down ^^
Amazing listener, highly recommend... Thank you
Good to speak to
Nice listener good listener
She is so amazing she really make me smile even of all my problems
They helped me without presumptions and listened. Thanks a lot
They were very supportive and chill.
So easy to talk to and has such a nice personality.
Loved her she is nice
she has gone through this so she really gets it
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