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Listener - Intermediate

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♥︎ Welcome ♥︎



Hello, I'm a verified listener hoping to help some lovely people in need of support. I'm fifteen, as of now, but I have a lot of experience up my sleeve. I'm currently studying psychology. 

I am LGBTQ+ friendly, religion/spirituality friendly, neurodivergence friendly, personality disorder friendly, dissociative disorders friendly, and disability friendly. 

My pronouns are he/him. I only take chats in English. If you wish to chat to someone in another language, please go to the Browse Listeners option in the chat menu. 

I take 1-2-1 chats, and will be active in group chats. I offer casual chats, support chats, and distraction chats. You do not have to book an appointment, but please be aware that I may not answer as fast as you'd like. 

If you'd like to chat again after our first initial chat, please do so, or let me know! I'm happy to be a regular listener of yours. Maybe we can even become sponsor/sponsee =).

The dots by my profile picture indicate my activity. The colour meanings can be found below.

Red dot: I am not online, and I will not be answering any messages. I am probably sleep, or my personal life is very busy. I may be active in listener-only chats, however. I will not be taking general requests for 1-2-1 chats. 

Orange dot: I am online, but my replies will be slow, or I'm only answering regular members, or I'm in active in a group chat. I am probably too busy to chat, and we won't be able to have a live 1-2-1 chat. I will not be taking general requests for 1-2-1 chats.

Green dot: I am online, and I will answer you quickly. I will be taking new general 1-2-1 requests, as well as talking to regular members, and I will be active in group chats.




❤︎ ADHD ~ I have no personal experience with ADHD. I only have clinical knowledge of the disorder. I am happy to support you, nonetheless. 

❤︎ Alcohol/Drug Abuse ~ I have personal experience with alcohol misuse/over the counter pills addiction✢, and I've supported with family members with drug addictions. I understand that misuse and addiction are different, but I am happy to support you all the same. 

❤︎ Anxiety ~ I have personal experience with anxiety. I also have clinical knowledge of it. I am happy to support you with all kinds of anxiety, and anxious thoughts. 

❤︎ Autism Spectrum ~ I have personal experience with autism, as well as experience supporting family members with autism. I have clinical knowledge of autism also. However, please keep in mind that everyone's experience with ASD is different. I am happy to support you with any problems that arise because of your ASD, or supporting you following a diagnosis. 

❤︎ Bipolar ~ I have no personal experience with bipolar. However, I do have friends and family who struggle with the disorder, and I have clinical knowledge of the disorder too. I am happy to support you to the best of my abilities. 

❤︎ Borderline Personality Disorder ~ I have personal experience with BPD. The main reason I decided to become a listener is because I wanted to support those also struggling with this disorder. I have a lot of clinical knowledge of BPD, and I am happy to support you with anything you need. I'd like to note that I am happy to support any personality disorder, but BPD is the only one I have personal experience with. 

❤︎ Breakups ~ I have personal experience with breakups, especially rough breakups. I am happy to support you through a breakup, no matter how rough. I am also happy to support you if you're thinking of breaking up.

❤︎ Bullying ~ I have personal experience with bullying. I am happy to support you with any kind of bullying, including: childhood bullying that still affects you, bullying in college/university, and bullying in the workplace. Bullying can affect us for years after the initial incident happens. Please don't be ashamed about this. 

❤︎ Cancer ~ I have no personal experience with cancer. I do have clinical knowledge of it, and knowledge from friends/family who have experience it or been a part of someone's journey into remission. I wish you/your loved one a quick remission. I am happy to support you on your journey. 

❤︎ Chronic Pain ~ I have personal experience with chronic pain, and experience in supporting family with it. I have some clinical knowledge of it. I am happy to support you with any kind of chronic pain you're experiencing, no matter the source. However, please remember that everyone's experience is different. 

❤︎ Depression ~ I have personal experience with depression, and experience with supporting family with it. i've been diagnosed with major-depressive disorder since I was ten. I have clinical knowledge of the disorder. I am happy to support you with any depression you are dealing with, whether situational or otherwise. 

❤︎ Diabetes ~ I have no personal experience with diabetes. I do, however, have clinical knowledge, and knowledge I've picked up from diabetic family members and friends. I am still happy to support you with diabetes, or any stressful feelings following a diagnosis. 

❤︎ Disabilities ~ I have personal experience with disabilities that are the result of an injury/accident. I am happy to support any kind of disability, including injury-based, learning difficulties, and other kinds of disabilities. 

❤︎ Domestic Violence ~ I have personal experience with domestic violence. I am happy to support you with any kind of abuse you're dealing with. This includes parental abuse, and abuse in the workplace. But I can't if you're currently having a crisis. I'd also like to note that it is a touchy subject for me, and I'd appreciate a warning before you talk about it. Thank you for understanding. 

❤︎ Eating Disorders ~ I have personal experience with eating disorders, as well as experience supporting family members and friends with one. However, it is an incredibly triggering topic to me, and I cannot support you. 

❤︎ Exercise Motivation ~ I wish you good luck on your exercise journey, but as is said above, these kinds of topics are incredibly triggering to me, and I cannot support you.

❤︎ Family Stress ~ I have personal experience with familial stress. I am happy to offer support for any kind of familial problems you may be having.

❤︎ Financial Stress ~ I have personal experience with being a part of a family who have financial problems. As I am not in a place where I have to provide the majority of the income, I am happy to offer you support. 

❤︎ Forgiveness ~ I have some personal experience with forgiving people, and getting experience. I am not the best educated, but I am happy to offer support regardless. 

❤︎ General Mental Health ~ I have personal experience with general mental health. I am happy to support you with whatever challenge or problem you're having. Any kind of mental health problems, or mental illnesses, with very few exceptions. This includes DID/OSDD, personality disorders, and all of the other demonised/stigmatised disorders.

❤︎ Getting Unstuck ~ I have some personal experience with getting unstuck. I'm happy to support you on your journey to recovering your momentum to get better and cope. 

❤︎ Grief ~ I have no personal experience with grief, but I do have experience helping friends and family deal with their personal losses. I am happy to support you with any kind of grief you're dealing with: bereavement (including miscarriage/loss of a child), loss of job, loss of pet, etc.  

❤︎ LGBTQ+ Issues ~ I have personal experience with LGBTQ+ issues. I am a gay man. I am happy to support you with any issues with identity, discrimination, or internalised hatred, for the most part. I will refer you to a different listener if I feel I cannot support you, because of differing opinions.

❤︎ Loneliness ~ I have personal experience with both perceived and genuine emotion. I am happy to support you through this feeling, and I'm happy to be your friend. 

❤︎ Managing Emotions ~ I have personal experience with managing emotions. I am not the most educated, but I'm happy to support you, and I look forward to growing with you. 

❤︎ Men's Issues ~ I have personal experience with men's issues, as I am a man. I am happy to support you with a range of issues, but please know we at 7Cups cannot support you through a suicidal crisis. 

❤︎ Obsessive Compulsive Disorder ~ I have no personal experience with OCD. However, I have clinical knowledge, and I am happy to support you with this.

❤︎ Panic Attacks ~ I have some personal experience with panic attacks. I'm happy to support you with them, and I'll try my best to help you if you're having one. 

❤︎ Parenting ~ I have no personal experience parenting. However, I am an uncle, and I can do my best to help with the stresses of being a parent. 

❤︎ Perinatal Mood Disorder ~ I have no personal experience with PMD. I also am not too educated on it. However, I am happy to support you, if you'd like. 

❤︎ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder ~ I have personal experience with trauma, and clinical knowledge of PTSD. I am happy to support you, but I do ask that you add warnings on anything too extreme. Thank you. 

❤︎ Racial & Cultural Identity ~ I have no personal experience with racial matters. I am European, and I do not experience racism. Because of this, I am not very comfortable discussing racial matters, but I will happily listen if really needed. 

❤︎ Recovery ~ I have personal experience with recovery (particularly from self-harm, and addiction to over-the-counter pills). I am happy to support you with any kind of recovery: addictions, physical injury/illness, etc. 

❤︎ Relationship Stress ~ I have personal experience with relationship stress. I am happy to support you with any kind of stress you may be having, or any part of your relationship that is stressing you out.

❤︎ Schizophrenia ~ I have no personal experience with schizophrenia, but I do have experience with psychosis. I have clinical knowledge, so I'm happy to support you, if you need it. 

❤︎ Self-Esteem ~ I have personal experience with poor self-esteem. I am happy to support you through whatever issue you're having, and be your friend. 

❤︎ Self-Harm ~ I have person experience with self-harm. I've been suffering with self-harm since I was ten. I have a lot of understanding about self-harm, and I have knowledge on how to care for wounds. I am happy to support you, if you're struggling with self-harm, as long as you know that I cannot help you in a crisis.

❤︎ Sexual Health ~ I have very little experience with sexual health, but I have a lot of knowledge. I'm happy to help you with whatever problem you're dealing with. Please keep conversations professional. 

❤︎ Sleeping Well ~ I have personal experience with poor sleep, and clinical knowledge of sleep disorders. I am happy to support you with whatever issue you're having, and record your sleep journey with you.

❤︎ Social anxiety ~ I have personal experience with social anxiety. I also have clinical knowledge of it. I am happy to support you, and help you work through ways you can help yourself, if you're having social anxiety.

❤︎ Spirituality ~ I have no personal experience with spirituality. However, I'm happy to support you with whatever you need support with, including religions/spiritualities of all types (yes: even satanism and witchcraft).

❤︎ Student Life ~ I think we all have personal experience here, haha. I am currently a student, so I am happy to support you with stress, anxieties, and everything else regarding student life. 

❤︎ Weight Management ~ I wish you luck on your journey to personal peace, but I am not able to support you for this. It is incredibly triggering for me, so please respect this. 

❤︎ Women's Issues ~ I have no experience with women's issues, as I am a man. Because of this, I am not comfortable discussing this topic. I am happy to help if you really need it, but otherwise, I cannot empathise as I do not experience the issues women face.

❤︎ Work Stress ~ I have no personal experience with work stress, but I have knowledge from family and friends. I am happy to help support you with any stress you're having.

(If you'd like to chat to somebody with [better/more] personal experience, please go to the Browse Listeners option in the chat menu. If you're looking to chat to somebody with personal experience with the exact problem you are experiencing, you can look for listeners in Forums.)

(Additionally, if you are currently in danger, are being harmed, are in an illegal situation, or are suicidal, please refer to our Crisis Page, as we at 7Cups are not trained to help you through a crisis.)

Number of Ratings: 22
Number of Reviews: 18
Listens to Teens
Languages English
Listener Since Dec 17, 2021
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 474
Cheers 16,435
People Helped 55
Chats 214
Group Support Chats 1
Listener Group Chats 11
Forum Posts 41
Forum Upvotes 58
Feedback & Reviews
so helpful and really understands you i know i say this a lot but i really mean it thank you for taking time out of your day to talk to me out of everyone i have talked to you helped the most - blondie with to little to no brain cells 😭
so very helpful to me.
So awesome so far, really making me feel like my opinion matters
really good and helpful
Empathetic listener
Very helpful, gave me great advice and the chat helped with some of the anxiety I was feeling!
It was amazing he totally helped and was very friendly about it
Very kind and engaging
I was feeling worthless, but this honestly changed my mood
really great listener, very caring and empathetic. thank you for listening it made me feel a whole lot better🤍 -shaniya
he knows how to listen and help you through your problems.
Great listener. Has a beautiful, understanding perspective on your current situation. Thanks
SO HELPFUL. Especially with grief issues.
they’re very nice and easy to talk to
Helpful, kind and put my anxiety at ease. Thank you :)
I quite enjoyed talking to Josh, they are very calming and is such a lovely person to talk to, I would definitely recommend 😀
lgbtq friendly and helpful :)
Very kind, understanding, and validating
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