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neatJar8848
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Am I really the bitch with the ‘tude ?
Relationship Stress / by neatJar8848
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 August 28th
...See more Long story short, I recently dated a guy I work with. Same department and everything. He lied to me about some major things like actually wanting to be with me(he was never interested even though he pretended like he did) and using the money($1000) I let him borrow for his sick sister and he actually used for a trip to New York. We broke up but although his feelings were never real, mine were. I was to the point I was falling for him. Which he knew because he asked. And having those feelings and finding out none of his were real, yes I was *** off. At the beginning of the breakup it got bad. I went through depression and had to go to the ER because I wasn’t eating or drinking anything. Then it really turned to rage. I spoke with my supervisor (female) who is basically best friends with my ex, about everything. So she knows everything that’s going on. Me and her have had problems before because there are some things we just don’t see eye to eye on. Recently she comes to me and asks what’s been going on. I was confused because I was good. There were a couple of bad days but nothing bad to where it needed to be addressed. She says I’ve had an attitude coming in everyday. Mainly because I don’t tell them good morning. A little about me, I don’t really tell ANYONE good morning. Especially first thing. I just stay to myself. And lately I’m just going to work to get it over with. Then another coworker calls me a *** for no reason. He asked me to get an appliance out of top stock and before I even said anything he says never mind I’ll do it. As he’s hooking up to the equipment I hear him calling me a ***. Granted yes, I would of said no because I was in the middle of doing something. But to get mad because I wouldn’t do it for especially when your reason is “I don’t like driving it” is stupid. It’s apart of your job. But I tried to switch departments but got denied. So now I’m stuck there. And I’m miserable. At least until I can find another job. So am I really a *** with an attitude? I’ll give more details if needed
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Am I really the asshole?
Relationship Stress / by neatJar8848
Last post
 August 28th
...See more So there was this guy. We work together. He starts flirting saying how much he really likes me etc… After a few months of only talking and flirting, we made it official. That’s when things started switching up and I start noticing. He doesn’t really want to talk to me, he doesn’t touch me like he used to, etc…One day he asks me to borrow some money($1000) to help his sister who is sick. Turned out he used that money to go on a trip to New York. His sister didn’t even know about the money. I found this out a couple months after I had given it to him. We obviously break up. As much as I wanted to work things out with him(because I did start to fall for him which he knew because he asked) I couldn’t. I can’t have that in my life. But now it’s a little awkward at work. He’s best friends with our female supervisor. They talk all the time. She calls on him for everything, even things that don’t require 2 people. But she will talk about workers in another department doing it and it’s wrong. It came up in a recent “conversation” with her and I said that there’s favoritism in the back with them. She laughed and denied it. And now he has “the fav” written on his name tag so I know she told him about the conversation because he wasn’t there that day. In that same conversation with her, she mentioned how I always come in with an attitude not saying good morning. The not saying good morning, that’s not an attitude. That’s just me being me. Quiet and not wanting to really talk to anyone. Especially first thing in the morning. Just because I distance myself from them, doesn’t mean I have an attitude. I just want nothing to do with them anymore. I’ve tried switching departments but I got denied. So now I am just stuck there with them. Then another coworker called me a *** because he had asked me to grab an appliance down from the shelf because he doesn’t like driving the equipment. Before I could even get a word out he says never mind I will do it. And called me a ***. I have never done anything to this man. I felt he had no right to do that. Granted yes, I would of said no. But I was in the middle of doing something and because you don’t like driving is not a valid excuse to have someone else get it for you. Am I wrong in this situation or am I actually being a *** with a attitude?
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