Hello! 🍂🐺

You can call me October, Tobey, or Otti 🤗
I'm new here, so I've yet to figure out the rhythm I'm comfortable with. It'll also take me a bit to get the hang of things. If you can, please 🐻 with me.

The first thing you need to know about me is that my pronouns are she/her, and that I'm autistic 🌂🌷 There are a couple of things you'll notice I struggle with:
✶ I tend to take things at face value —this means literally. It's okay if we don't understand each other at first; we can always clarify things, ask questions, and, well, sometimes it can be a bit funny! 🤭
✶ Although I'm big on humor, it's very hard for me to pick up on it 👉👈 So please don't take it personally if I completely miss a cue, a joke, a pun... or if I don't find it funny.
✶ I don't do well with pressure 🫠 I'll gladly provide as much of my energy as I'm comfortable giving, but I require time to recharge. Human interactions, especially the ones we have here, which can be dense, loaded, and between complete strangers, drain me quite fast ⏰🐸
✶ Which brings me to my next point: if you could be so kind as to let me acclimate to you and the conversation you want me to participate in, I'd be grateful 💗 I need to learn how you operate and express yourself before I'm able to accompany you in ways that suit you 🥰
✶ I can only focus on one chat at a time. You'll notice my status changing from online to busy based on that. You're more than welcome to message me! I'd appreciate your patience if you do so while my status indicates I'm busy —as soon as I'm available, I'll reply 🐌📩

If a minor wishes to contact me, please know that all I'd be able to provide is guidance, a listening ear, comfort, and as much knowledge as I'm able to. I don't believe people come here to make friends, but just in case, I wanted to clarify where I stand.

Discussing sex is completely out of the question. I tried being available for analytical conversations, where the focus is trauma, sexual health, seeking knowledge, and so on, but every single person who brings up the topic is a dude, and a dude who wants to turn the chat into something entirely inappropriate. I'm done with the whole situation.

For now, that's it!
Thank you for taking the time to read my bio 🐳🍄🍁🐴