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oliveLemon345
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Cannot choose between 2 people
Relationship Stress / by oliveLemon345
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 May 4th, 2020
...See more I have a boyfriend who stays in India while I am in Nigeria. Long distance. We first actually met in a park in India then we started talking and then we finally got in love. I had my first kiss with him. Last year I came back to Nigeria becausey parents stay here. So after that he was seeing someone else and left me for her. I was depressed. A month ago he realized his mistake and then we patched up. Now also a month ago my friend and I were playing online game so there was another guy who was her friend playing too. We got to know each other and we go along. He started loving me like he wants to do everything for me. He would video call everyday and he would message me before sleeping and he stays in Cameroon. He wants to make me his wife. Whereas my bf since he stays with his parents doesn't message much. I was talking to my boyfriend day before yesterday. He told me that I shouldn't be serious or committed, if I find any guy attractive I can go and talk to him generally. As much as he was flattered he also said he feels pressured. Yesterday he said he had plans for us when I go to India for vacation. I am currently working. I have no idea what to do. It's killing me.
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