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Listener - Discoverer 8

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5.0 star rating

ūüíú I will not be available for 1 to 1 chats at this time very often. Thank you to all lovely members and friends that I have made on this site. ūüíú

Hi! I'm Ella. It's great to meet you.  I am a 19 year old from the UK. I have lived experience of domestic abuse, bullying, family stress, alcohol use and self harm/eating disorders. // Salut! Je suis Ella. Enchanté! J'ai 19 et je suis de Royaume-Uni. J'ai de l'expérience sur violence domestique, intimidation, stress familial, consommation d'alcool et l'automutilation/troubles de l'alimentation.

I'm here to listen to you. No problem is too big or too small. If I am offline or busy, just send me a quick message detailing when you are available to talk and I'll get back to you as soon as possible! ‚̧ // Je suis ici¬†pour t'√©couter.¬†Aucun probl√®me n'est trop grand ou trop petit. Si je suis¬†hors ligne ou occup√©, juste envoyez-moi un message¬†d√©taillant quand tu es¬†disponible.

Please note that I don't take casual chats. If you are seeking support with any of the issues below,  you can always talk to me! Let's discuss what's on your mind. 

The moving hand writes, and having written, moves on.

‚̧ My listener twins are the amazing¬†@LeaderOfHeros. She is loyal, kind, funny, great to be around and a brilliant friend! Not only is she an inspiration to me, but she is an asset to the 7 cups community and a great listener! ‚̧

‚̧ And @CherishedBlossom, a lovely fellow chocolate and cookie lover! She is so welcoming and understanding! ‚̧

My Roles on 7 Cups

Verified Listener
Project Agent


With much love, Ella! ‚̧

Number of Ratings: 20
Number of Reviews: 16
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, British Sign Language, French
Listener Since Aug 6, 2019
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 205
Cheers 31,966
People Helped 79
Chats 288
Group Support Chats 169
Listener Group Chats 69
Forum Posts 89
Forum Upvotes 143
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Feedback & Reviews
She's the best listener, no judge. She's so caring and looks after me, she has a big heart.
very kind and lovely listener ūüćÄ
Patient, understanding and listened without judgement.
They are a good listener!
One of the best listeners I had the chance to talk to.
Just Wonderful, I feel so much better and it was a very helpful and useful Chat.
Excellent listener, very erceptive and proactive with good initiative, intelligent and educated. A pleasant presence and someone to cherish...
I loved this listener.
Super patient and gave really good advice!
Sooo sweet being there for me always no matter what she’s amazing person
I feel lucky to meet her. She gives people words of wisdom and on top of that she is very kind, understanding, but also being truthful. She make the world a better placeūüíź
Excellent listener. Asking the right questions.
Lv you and you are great
She was kind and nice.Asked me lots of questions to be able to identify the issues.
The listener was straightforward and didn't hesitate to answer.
Just was there for me ... I just needed to spit out my bad feelings. Thanks for listening
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