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optimisticDreamer3906 |
Listener - Discoverer 8

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

💜 I will not be available for 1 to 1 chats at this time very often. Thank you to all lovely members and friends that I have made on this site. 💜

Hi! I'm Ella. It's great to meet you.  I am a 19 year old from the UK. I have lived experience of domestic abuse, bullying, family stress, alcohol use and self harm/eating disorders. // Salut! Je suis Ella. Enchanté! J'ai 19 et je suis de Royaume-Uni. J'ai de l'expérience sur violence domestique, intimidation, stress familial, consommation d'alcool et l'automutilation/troubles de l'alimentation.


I'm here to listen to you. No problem is too big or too small. If I am offline or busy, just send me a quick message detailing when you are available to talk and I'll get back to you as soon as possible! ❤ // Je suis ici pour t'écouter. Aucun problème n'est trop grand ou trop petit. Si je suis hors ligne ou occupé, juste envoyez-moi un message détaillant quand tu es disponible.


Please note that I don't take casual chats. If you are seeking support with any of the issues below,  you can always talk to me! Let's discuss what's on your mind. 


The moving hand writes, and having written, moves on.


❤ My listener twins are the amazing @LeaderOfHeros. She is loyal, kind, funny, great to be around and a brilliant friend! Not only is she an inspiration to me, but she is an asset to the 7 cups community and a great listener! ❤

❤ And @CherishedBlossom, a lovely fellow chocolate and cookie lover! She is so welcoming and understanding! ❤

My Roles on 7 Cups

Verified Listener
Project Agent


*hugs* 

With much love, Ella! ❤

Number of Ratings: 20
Number of Reviews: 16
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, British Sign Language, French
Listener Since Aug 6, 2019
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 205
Cheers 31,966
People Helped 79
Chats 288
Group Support Chats 169
Listener Group Chats 69
Forum Posts 89
Forum Upvotes 143
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Eating Disorder
Anxiety
Parenting
Sleeping Well
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Financial Stress
Weight Management
Exercise Motivation
Forgiveness
Grief
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Student Life
Disabilities
Self-Esteem
Spirituality
General Mental Health
Self-Harm
Domestic Violence
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
    Completed step number is 204, November 5th, 2019
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    Group Support
    Completed step number is 203, November 4th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 200, November 2nd, 2019
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    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 199, November 2nd, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Provide 1-on-1 Support
    Completed step number is 198, November 2nd, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 197, November 2nd, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 192, October 30th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 189, October 15th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 187, October 14th, 2019

Feedback & Reviews
She's the best listener, no judge. She's so caring and looks after me, she has a big heart.
very kind and lovely listener 🍀
Patient, understanding and listened without judgement.
They are a good listener!
One of the best listeners I had the chance to talk to.
Just Wonderful, I feel so much better and it was a very helpful and useful Chat.
Excellent listener, very erceptive and proactive with good initiative, intelligent and educated. A pleasant presence and someone to cherish...
I loved this listener.
Super patient and gave really good advice!
Sooo sweet being there for me always no matter what she’s amazing person
I feel lucky to meet her. She gives people words of wisdom and on top of that she is very kind, understanding, but also being truthful. She make the world a better place💐
Excellent listener. Asking the right questions.
Lv you and you are great
She was kind and nice.Asked me lots of questions to be able to identify the issues.
The listener was straightforward and didn't hesitate to answer.
Just was there for me ... I just needed to spit out my bad feelings. Thanks for listening
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Peppermint Sage Jester of Smiles Ellen Anxiety Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Alcohol & Drug Abuse Verified Listener Bullying Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Voice Ray of Hope Loneliness Guide Exercise Motivation Affirmative Listening Ace Perinatal Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Finances Getting Unstuck Project Agent 7Cups Guide Community 101 TS Key Support Plus Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Meet & Greet Proudly Proactive I Proudly Proactive II Reconnection Hero I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Weight Management Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Joiner Hope Training Accountability Peer Pro Peer Training 01 Peer Training 02 Peer Training 03 Peer Training 04 Peer Training 05 Peer Training 06 Peer Training 07 Peer Training 08 Peer Training 09 Peer Training 10 Peer Training 11 Peer Training 12 BeKind21 Support Key Continuing Education
Questions Answered
Why did they pick me out of all people to bully?
October 7th, 2019 7:52pm How do I know if I have social anxiety disorder?
September 9th, 2019 3:35pm Should I breakup with a person who is affecting my health mentally and my career too? The last time we broke up he was all cursing me to not let someone get attached to me and leave them like him.
September 13th, 2019 5:23pm