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optimisticPeace71
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Number of ratings36 Number of reviews11 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 13, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 341 People helped99 Chats627 Forum posts40 Forum upvotes27
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Hello! I'm glad you found me on 7cups! I'm here to help. :D Shoot me a message. I'm pretty cool! I'm Black (obvs I know). If you're black and you have things you want to talk about I'm culturally/racially competent listener. I'm also LGBTQIA competent. I proudly identify as bisexual.  If you're appreciative of my work feel free to drop a donation: https://www.deliverycode.com/wishlist/17220

 

Thanks! I look foward to hearing from you.

Recent forum posts
tired of feeling used
Relationship Stress / by optimisticPeace71
Last post
February 6th, 2017
...See more I was dating someone since April and things have been going well. Recently i asked if they wanted to make things official, they said yes then the next week they had family emergency, didn't tell me about it ghosted on me for like 5 days and when i brought it up to them (me being worried/ignored) they tried to flip it on me and make it seem like i was being secretive about my emotions and then proceeded to tell me how they weren't in love with me, how they miss me as a friend, and how they don't want a relationship i wish ppl were more honest with me i was very transparent about my feelings the entire time, i feel like folks are dishonest to themselves sometimes. it just makes me mad to think about it because when we had this conversation they seemed so detached and arrogant. It pissed me off. Why are people like this?
Struggling with Suicide Ideation / Depression
General Support / by optimisticPeace71
Last post
January 10th, 2016
...See more During the past couple of weeks I've been struggling with suicide ideation and depression. On top of that I live with GAD & social anxiety, along with PTSD> This isn't the first time in my life that I've struggled with suicidal thoughts. I've dealt with it since elementary school. Sometimes events trigger these thoughts in me.....I've been dealing with a lot of rapid change that I didn't plan for and I'm having a hard time. I'm in a place where my family isn't close to me (3,000 miles away). Things will change soon, but I just need some support right now. I hope that I can make it into the new year
South Carolina?!?
Around the World / by optimisticPeace71
Last post
May 12th, 2018
...See more Anyone ? Anyone? I'm from Charleston  Post if you're from South Carolina!
Feedback & Reviews
Lovely person, truly listens to you
Amazing Listener!
She was very helpful and really helped to put my feelings into perspective
Super Listner
very nice person
A really great person to talk to. Thanks.
This by far was the best conversation I've had with anyone thanks again Bb for being so open minded about every issue
Great person to vent and made me happier :)
Helped me a lot to process what I was feeling with empathy and kindness
she was so much helpfull, I thank her for her time
It was great. I felt like I was talking to someone who understood and related to the issues I was having, and they gave great help through the conversation.
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