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Depression Support / by optimisticVase7844
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September 22nd, 2024
...See more Hello guys ! I am feeling extremely lonely . so tell me whats up with you guys? Hkw was your day ? Something good that happened today ? Anything random ? Lets just talk uk . lets be friends. Everyoen want to be friends . lets talk about bad or good ,sad or happy . i be your crying shoulder or your cheetful friend. Text me ,!!!
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Anxiety Support / by optimisticVase7844
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September 14th, 2024
...See more Hey guys !! My teacher today called me hopless case . I have been trying very hard to be better ...and though i am still struggling with tiem managment and efficiency. I worked hard . She said so in front of entire calss . and i laughed cuz my body has adapted in such a way over teh years that i acnt cry in front of people unless felt safe . so instead i laugh ...not that i find it funny but cuz it hurts . All day my body reacted negatively . I was ahving difficulty breathing , my head is exploading , i cant think , my arms and legs feel too weak . and i have made up my mind to try 10× harder but how do i tell my body to stop . More nad more frequent are these scenerios of short breath and headace .
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Friendship advice
Relationship Stress / by optimisticVase7844
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September 12th, 2024
...See more Hey everyone !  I am looking for genuine advice and tbh reaching out for help is quite scary . But here i go ! Its long but i would really appreciate help and guideness  I overcame my depression an year ago with the help of a teacher . ( she gave hope ) And since then i have tried my best to be better at everything. Priorities, academics , relationships.   But in doing so i have realized that my best friend for 9 years is truly toxic for my health . not that i dont love her , i do very much in some way i am addicted .  She has done many things like soreada rummours about me , send my pic to a guy without informing , told a guy that i have a crush on him because he proposed to her nad she didnt wnat to accept , her mother said awful things to me on call like you are doing a good job ...she is not expresive and hence you should take care of her , she told her mom false awful things about me due to her own insecurities which made her parents hate me but then quickly told them nc things in order for a hangout etc .  Now i forgave and forgave but i cant forget and now since i am hopying to do more than survival ...i feel angery . she is a topper and i was numb for years which makes simple things hard .  I do still love her but its like i hater myself for loving her , i feel sad cuz of my love , angery . any time we are together i blsme myself and never her .  I just want to really focus on my goals but she is addictive .  I have other friends afc .  But lets be honest i am deeply mistrusting person , abnormal , different , intensive.   So ya ! I did be very happy if anyone could advice me or guide me .
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Advice for aftermath of depression in terms of friendship
Depression Support / by optimisticVase7844
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September 12th, 2024
...See more Hey everyone !  I am looking for genuine advice and tbh reaching out for help is quite scary . But here i go ! Its long but i would really appreciate help and guideness  I overcame my depression an year ago with the help of a teacher . ( she gave hope ) And since then i have tried my best to be better at everything. Priorities, academics , relationships.   But in doing so i have realized that my best friend for 9 years is truly toxic for my health . not that i dont love her , i do very much in some way i am addicted .  She has done many things like soreada rummours about me , send my pic to a guy without informing , told a guy that i have a crush on him because he proposed to her nad she didnt wnat to accept , her mother said awful things to me on call like you are doing a good job ...she is not expresive and hence you should take care of her , she told her mom false awful things about me due to her own insecurities which made her parents hate me but then quickly told them nc things in order for a hangout etc .  Now i forgave and forgave but i cant forget and now since i am hopying to do more than survival ...i feel angery . she is a topper and i was numb for years which makes simple things hard .  I do still love her but its like i hater myself for loving her , i feel sad cuz of my love , angery . any time we are together i blsme myself and never her .  I just want to really focus on my goals but she is addictive .  I have other friends afc .  But lets be honest i am deeply mistrusting person , abnormal , different , intensive.   So ya ! I did be very happy if anyone could advice me or guide me .
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