originalLion57 |
Listener - Expert 1

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My name is Emily. I'm 23 years old. I care about people too much.

 

"So you don't know where you're going, and you wanna talk
And you feel like you're going where you've been before
You tell anyone who'll listen but you feel ignored
Nothing's really making any sense at all
Let's talk"

- Coldplay

 

Number of Ratings: 82
Number of Reviews: 41
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Danish
Listener Since Jun 3, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 592
Cheers 57,256
People Helped 240
Chats 1,038
Group Support Chats 31
Listener Group Chats 4
Forum Posts 47
Forum Upvotes 60
Feedback & Reviews
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I felt better :)
Very kind, compassionate and helpful. Really wonderful - definitely helped me a great deal.
Absolutely amazing person. So kind and understanding and does a great job making you feel comfortable about talking through tough issues
VERY attentive and fast response! Very useful! Thank you for the help!
Fantastic insight and felt supported the second they started chatting
Thank you!
Every LIstener on here, from the very best to the newest rookie, could take a page out of her book!
Beautiful heart!!!!! I love her!!!!
originalLion57 rules
Very kind and insightful. I felt really heard which is an invaluable gift.
Thank you oiginalLion57
Listener continues to follow up each day since chat. Almost seems I am sitting face to face not on my computer. And like a close friend. Not a listener helper. ☺☺
Amazing person and listener
Great listener! Had a great experience :)
I had a very positive chat with this listener 2 nights ago. Has since messaged me. Follow up is important to me. Reenforces my feeling of being made valued. Great work my friend and 7 cups.

Well-spoken and caring. Made me feel better about my situation and kept it about me and my problems while still being able to relate that they felt the same way.
Was feeling very low. Had hit a very low point in life. Perhaps my lowest ever. Had been rejected by family. Listener gave me hope. Gave great attention to what I said. Made me feel important and valued. Would rate easily in top 5 listeners over 8 months I have used this site but I realy think number 1. How ever I consider all equal. They also did not judge or criticise in any way. I feel I was very hounered and privilaged to have spent around 3 hours with this person. Wow . I thank 7 cups and this person deeply.
A really sweet gal. She listened to me and took the time to actually think of possibilities and outcomes. She replied truthfully and wholeheartedly. Thank you so much missy. Stay Sweet! x
Insightful, reassuring and uplifting
An awesome listener!
I had to leave the chat early, but OriginalLion57 was perfectly fine with it, I asked about reconnecting once I'm back and they were very welcoming. For the short time we spoke, I feel they have truly listened and most definitely thought before they typed, which is noticed and highly appreciated. I completely recommend them. :)
Really polite and lovely Listener. Highly recommended.
Brilliant, objective and simply nice
Helped me calm down I was quite distressed. Was good to vent to someone who doesn't actually have an emotional connection to me.
thank you
Best listener I ever had!
Really nice and helpful listener! :)
The best listener I've ever had!
Great listener
thank you for being here :)
I felt great
She's so sweet... very careful and sympathetic...
Good listener and fun to talk to :)
Thank you
She is just amazing! So kind and sweet.
very nice and empathetic.
Thanks a lot
Outstanding bedside manner and enormous empathy. Great resource for asking questions and providing feedback in a non-judgmental manner, while still maintaining professionalism.
Really helpful .. Gave me hope dat evrythn will b all right...
I felt good
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
What does depression feel like?
July 11th, 2015 9:51pm
How do you help someone who is depressed?
June 10th, 2015 6:56pm
How would you describe depression?
December 25th, 2015 5:37pm
What is the difference between sadness and depression?
December 25th, 2015 5:39pm
I feel like it will never go away. Will it really?
December 25th, 2015 5:44pm
Do people always want to get better from depression?
June 4th, 2015 11:12pm
How to get rid of depression?
July 12th, 2015 12:49pm
What's the best way to get over loneliness?
July 12th, 2015 12:41pm
Why keep living, what's the use?
June 4th, 2015 2:19pm
Why do I feel bad about the past?
June 4th, 2015 1:16pm
Why do I desire to sleep so much?
June 5th, 2015 8:54am
How do I explain my depression when everyone thinks I'm such a happy and positive person?
June 4th, 2015 2:12pm
Is this depression or am I being over dramatic?
June 4th, 2015 2:10pm
How can I understand that depression has an end?
June 4th, 2015 11:13pm
What should I do, if I feel like I don't care about anything (even my family and friends)?
June 4th, 2015 5:37pm
Why do I feel so depressed at night?
November 5th, 2015 2:48pm
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
July 11th, 2015 9:53pm
How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
June 19th, 2015 8:07pm
How can I tell someone how I'm feeling without looking silly or weak?
December 25th, 2015 5:54pm
How can I learn to control my emotions when I don't even know what they are?
July 8th, 2015 9:42pm
Whats the best way to get over a mentally scarring event?
June 12th, 2015 10:06am
Will it be overwhelming when I stop feeling numb?
June 4th, 2015 11:21pm
How can I keep calm and not be nervous on stage?
June 4th, 2015 8:24pm
How can I stop being mad all the time?
June 4th, 2015 10:18pm
How do I handle my emotions when I'm in a situation that's not allowing me to use my usual coping tools?
June 4th, 2015 5:17pm
Why can't I control my tears?
June 4th, 2015 11:17pm
Why do i always get so angry over the simplest things that shouldnt even bother me?
December 29th, 2015 7:20pm
When can you know the difference between experiencing beneficial stress and harmful stress?
June 4th, 2015 1:20pm
Someone yelled at me and I couldn't yell back, how can I vent?
June 4th, 2015 7:16pm
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
June 28th, 2015 2:34pm
Am I a bad employee if I skip work because of work stress?
June 4th, 2015 7:42pm
What's the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names?
June 4th, 2015 11:00pm
How do you cope with bullying when the ones bullying you are your own family?
June 4th, 2015 8:23pm
Why is it so hard for me to stand up for myself?
June 12th, 2015 9:56am
How can I realize that I am more important than fitting into society's standards?
June 4th, 2015 11:33pm
If you don't eat because of stress, or you just genuinely don't want to eat, what kind of eating disorder would this be classed as?
June 4th, 2015 2:14pm
You know you have an eating disorder, can you identify when you are showing signs?
June 4th, 2015 11:22pm
Why don't people understand that you don't have to be skinny to have an eating disorder?
June 4th, 2015 11:34pm
Why do I have dips in my recovery and sink back to old habits for a day or so?
June 6th, 2015 4:01pm
What does it mean when I feel that I have to "work off" every bit of food that I eat?
June 4th, 2015 2:01pm
What is something that I can remember while having a panic attack that can help me calm down?
June 4th, 2015 1:59pm
How can I calm down during a panic attack?
July 11th, 2015 9:56pm
Can I drink alcohol or use recreational drugs if I have anxiety?
June 12th, 2015 9:47am
Can anxiety cause me to feel depressed?
December 25th, 2015 5:41pm
How can I stop being paranoid?
December 25th, 2015 5:52pm
Will my anxiety ever go away?
December 25th, 2015 5:50pm
Can anxiety and depression from a break up be a cause of weight loss?
June 4th, 2015 11:00pm
How do I deal with all the anxiety and stress from school?
June 4th, 2015 1:33pm
Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
December 25th, 2015 5:46pm
How can I control my repetitive negative thinking when I'm feeling anxious?
June 7th, 2015 11:06am
Are my friends going to dislike me if I don't want to do what they want to do?
June 5th, 2015 8:54am
Why can't I just live life as worry free as everyone else? Why does it have to ruin my life?
June 4th, 2015 1:12pm
How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
July 5th, 2015 9:00pm
Is staying in the closet forever a bad thing?
June 12th, 2015 10:05am
How do I know if I am transgender?
July 5th, 2015 9:13pm
How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?
June 19th, 2015 8:13pm
Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?
June 19th, 2015 8:09pm
What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?
June 12th, 2015 9:58am
How can I come out to my parents?
June 4th, 2015 1:38pm
How will I ever be able to start my transition and become who I really am?
June 7th, 2015 2:03pm
Does it make me annoying to tell my entourage about my sexuality?
June 12th, 2015 9:45am
Why can't I just be straight?
June 4th, 2015 5:39pm
When is the right time to come out?
June 4th, 2015 8:36pm
Why am I gay? I hate myself.
September 18th, 2015 12:19pm
How can I tell my parents that I'm gay?
June 19th, 2015 8:04pm
I am terrified my child will grow up with the same traumas that I suffered - how, on a very limited income, well below the poverty line, can I assure my child gets the most positive life experience?
June 4th, 2015 6:03pm
Am I a bad person for self harming?
June 4th, 2015 1:57pm
How to get rid of self harm scars?
July 12th, 2015 12:52pm
When I'm angry, why do I always feel the need to hurt myself?
June 19th, 2015 8:15pm
Why do my scars still itch?
July 12th, 2015 12:25pm
Why do I feel like I need to hurt myself in order to feel better?
June 5th, 2015 1:36pm
What is it like to show your scars in public or around friends and family?
June 4th, 2015 11:23pm
Can you stop self harm without addressing the underlying issues ?
June 4th, 2015 11:20pm
Can I learn to use other forms of coping to resist the urges of Self Harm?
June 4th, 2015 8:26pm
How do I get the courage to throw away my razors?
July 14th, 2015 12:45am
Why do other people yell at me for self-harming? Why can't they be more sympathetic?
June 4th, 2015 10:15pm
I tend to self-harm when my emotions fly out of check. What should I do??
June 6th, 2015 4:16pm
Do I have to break the skin for it to be classed as self-harm?
June 4th, 2015 11:34pm
How many times will I have to tell myself "I'm never going to do this again" for me to realize that self harm is not the right way to deal with pain?
June 4th, 2015 1:53pm
will I self-harm forever?
June 4th, 2015 11:35pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
December 25th, 2015 5:48pm
Why is it so hard to tell yourself that it is time to move on?
June 4th, 2015 1:31pm
What do you do if you have a crush on the person that has already broken your heart once?
June 4th, 2015 10:22pm
Is it okay to be single forever?
July 11th, 2015 9:54pm
How can I go living without her when she's been my everything?
June 5th, 2015 2:08pm
Do I miss the person, or the relationship?
June 4th, 2015 11:24pm
How to handle a breakup with class?
June 4th, 2015 2:11pm
How do I get over this feeling that I wasn't good enough?
June 4th, 2015 1:29pm
Why can't I seem to move on?
June 4th, 2015 11:14pm
How do I know if I should go to rehab, or just tough it out myself?
June 4th, 2015 5:47pm
Is it possible to drink 'socially' when recovering from alcohol addiction ?
June 4th, 2015 8:50pm
I don't want to stop, is that wrong?
June 12th, 2015 9:25am
At what point are you considered to be an alcoholic or addict?
June 4th, 2015 2:15pm
Is it okay for my dad to take his anger out on me when he's drunk?
June 4th, 2015 1:23pm
Is it normal when you get upset you cant cry you just feel as if you cant breath and you just sit there thinking of nothing except all the pain thats coming onto you
June 4th, 2015 8:04pm
How can I keep myself from going over the edge?
June 4th, 2015 2:17pm
How can I create new relationships with my siblings now that we're adults?
June 4th, 2015 7:31pm
I'm the black sheep. What can I do to still have good relationships with my becoming-estranged family?
June 4th, 2015 8:46pm
How can I maintain a healthy relationship with my parent if I'm at odds with my step-parent?
June 7th, 2015 2:06pm
How do I overcome a major death in the family? It seems to be tearing my family apart.
June 12th, 2015 9:59am
Is it normal for me to become closer to another family other than mine?
June 12th, 2015 9:41am
How can I escape the abuse of my father when he is drunk ?
June 6th, 2015 4:14pm
How do I get the balance right between keeping my family happy, but living my life the way I want to?
June 4th, 2015 11:26pm
Why do I always feel like a burden on my family?
June 4th, 2015 11:19pm
Why do my parents expect so much from me?
June 4th, 2015 8:53pm
Why can't I handle relationships well?
June 4th, 2015 11:25pm
How do I explain to my parents that sometimes I need space and I want to be left alone, without giving them the impression that I don't like to spend time with them as a family?
June 4th, 2015 5:15pm
Why do I often have the feeling that my parents and siblings use me as a scapegoat?
June 12th, 2015 9:46am
Why do adults act like children when it comes to arguments? They'll argue over the most trivial of things, like two toddlers who don't get what they want.
June 4th, 2015 2:16pm
How can I get over my trauma?
June 6th, 2015 4:17pm
How do I let my partner know about my past traumatic experiences without my partner freaking out?
June 4th, 2015 2:03pm
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
July 5th, 2015 9:05pm
What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
July 5th, 2015 9:07pm