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paul1982 |
Listener - Scholar 3

Listener Rating
4.5 star rating

Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with (relationship problems). I enjoy (reading, writing, listening and learning new skills). I've overcome a lot in life, realise sometimes you just need to get things off your chest and speak to a stranger and would like to help by listening to you. I realise how important this is. I have recently gained several therapy based qualifications:

CBT Diploma

Therapeutic Art Diploma

Everyday Mind Mastery

Mindfulness Diploma

Psychology Diploma

Life Coaching Diploma

I hope the experience gained from being a listener will one day help me onto the therapy path full time.If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 176
Number of Reviews: 41
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Oct 23, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 381
Cheers 44,280
People Helped 297
Chats 734
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 17
Forum Upvotes 7
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Feedback & Reviews
I felt like I was being listened to, and my problems put in a fair light. In the end i left with productive advice that I could carry with me. The conversation also gave me a chance to put me in a position where i could reflect over the situation.
Caring and patient, helpful with good advice.
talking to him helped me out to realize that my situation is not as bad as i though
Thank you so much!!! It really helped talking to you!!! very compassionate and caring.
It was great to talk with Paul. He is very honest and straightforward, which is a plus when one gets into the emotional talk vortice. He also active in his approach, suggesting different ways to look at things and practices that may allow to grow in this flexibility of the eyes. I hope we can talk again, thank you.
Gave a great tip when I had low self-confidence!
Perfect listener
He was understanding and gave very good advice to focus on myself. Thank you.
You won't find many people like Paul. A truly pure and kind hearted person. He always listens to my struggles and willing to help people. You will feel like a blessing once you find him.
Thank you for listening and making me feel that I am not alone. Would definitely love to talk more with you.
Paul was great at responding and understood my situation. He is very smart and used his knowledge to tell me activities that I still use to calm down today.
Very patient and kind listener.
i liked talking to him. he was helpful and conciderate.
Paul is a good guy. He spent more than two hours with me. Maybe 3. Just listening to me helped. I don't feel so alone. He's also intelligent which helps with advice. I will definitely log on to speak with him again.
Paul is a wonderful human being and does everything he can to support the people who contact him. I highly recommend Paul because he is very kind and takes everything you say onboard. Thank you.
It was a good talk. Thank you again, You're doing a great job!
Very insightful. A great listener and definitely confident is being straight forward and honest. Would absolutely talk to more.
It was a positive experience...I would recommend him.
Really helped me getting through my troubles. He do have nice reasoning skills.
Amazing listener! :)
10/10 listener
Kind, sincere, gentle and very non-judgemental.
A sincerely kind and compassionate man. I went to him with a very sensitive subject, he listened and made me feel like I mattered. Thank-You kind stranger!
A good listener to talk to about relationships.
Awesome, helpful guy to talk to!
Very patient, and understanding. Thanks Paul
Amazing thank you so much Paul, I was so confused with everything going on and you have now helped me to clear my own confusion!! Even had me smiling in the end!! Thank you =)
Paul is such a fantastic listener, at the beginning of our chat I was so confused however Paul helped me to answer my own confusion and I now know what I need to do! He put a smile on my face! Thank you so much Paul =)
Very patient and helpful.
He seemed to connect with what I had to say and tried hard to understand the bits where necessary. Very active listener who really wants to listen. Highly recommended :)
I had a very nice experience with Paul1982. He helped me greatly and I highly appreciate it. I hope that he gets to help many more in the near future as he has done for me, because he inspired me greatly! Thank you so much!
He was really great at listening and solving my problems with me.
He helped me in the best way anybody ever could.
Helps put things into perspective, thank you!
Paul was extremely helpful to me.
Quick on responses. Great advice. Good listener. Thank you.
I really appreciated his help and think he's a good soul for helping others. There's not many of them left in the world.
He's done everything on his part to help, despite it being a tough situation to deal with.
A great genuine guy, who shows great empathy and understanding. Thank you
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Questions Answered
Why do people hate me for no reason?
June 28th, 2015 2:37pm
Is it normal for me to hold a grudge against my bully?
May 15th, 2015 12:50pm
How can I say something back without seeming desperate or offending someone else?
November 23rd, 2015 11:01am
How do I handle a boss who bullies me and puts me down at work?
June 6th, 2015 10:58pm
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
June 28th, 2015 2:06pm
My partner is using me, should I break up with my partner?
November 5th, 2014 10:50am
I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
June 28th, 2015 2:05pm
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
June 28th, 2015 2:13pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
June 28th, 2015 2:36pm
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
June 28th, 2015 2:11pm
Why does this have to happen to me?
July 31st, 2015 11:18am
Is it okay to be single forever?
June 28th, 2015 2:17pm
Do I miss the person, or the relationship?
June 6th, 2015 7:40pm
What's the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you ?
December 27th, 2015 6:49pm
How do I start to live a life without the person I can't live without?
February 16th, 2017 7:39pm
Is it normal to breakup multiple times?
June 7th, 2015 11:34am
How can I stop myself from checking up on my ex?
May 28th, 2015 6:42pm
What can I talk about with my boyfriend?
November 5th, 2015 5:07pm
I love two different people. What should I do?
November 9th, 2016 12:25pm
How to get closure from my ex? I feel I need it.
November 9th, 2016 12:30pm