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persistentIdea8015
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Relationship Stress / by persistentIdea8015
Last post
 June 26th, 2022
...See more So my ex and I met on a website where you go and talk o strangers. I vented out about a guy I got attached with and he was very supportive and gave me good advice. So I added him on snapchat and we started taking and watching stuff together on discord. For a month, we were just friends talking casually and then he started telling me how it would be fun to actually hang out and he would even ask me out if we were near each other. I didn't think any of it since it's too fast for him to start liking me or anything but then he just kept on telling me about a future where we could be together and how I'm making him feel all these emotions he has never felt before. I admit that I didn't like him that much back then but I got used to that attention and the constant affection. We started getting real close day by day until we started talking about whether we'd make things official and we did after two moths of meeting. We are very similar in a lot of things and I have never connected with anyone the way I connected with him before. I know it was too fast and I probably don't even know who this person is but I've seen him change through the time we were talking. He is depressed but started getting his life together again and I sometimes think I may have contributed to that. One of the things in his life that he started getting back to is gaming. So at first he still makes time for me. He goes to his two jobs and updates me regularly. He didn't change even though he got busier and we're doing great. Until he started oversleepinh again. We never get to talk anymore. We never get to do things together. He said his phone is broken too so we got limited opportunity to talk in snapchat where we mainly communicate, even though he is fine talking on discord. I voiced out my disappointments but he still wouldn't change or tell me why it's happening. It just kept on getting worse up to the point that I get mad over petty things. Since we're online dating, all the little things matter to me and back then, it used to matter to him too. It's hard seeing him change and I couldn't do anything about it but cry and hope things will be back to normal. Three weeks ago he ignore me for a whole day and when I asked him if he's ignoring me, he told me he can't ignore someone who doesn't give him attention. He's pointing the blame to me when I'm merely returning his energy. He told me I add to his depression everyday and that our relationship is more work than pleasure. I asked if we're over and he said we are but when I asked him if he's sure he said he isn't. He said he still loves me and I should give him some time. But then I checked his snapscore and found out it went up by 20 points. That's when I realized he's probably talking to someone else while he's ignoring me and agreed that we should just break up. I find it so hard to move on. I actually thought I'd be spending a majority of my life with this man and he made me believe I'm the love of his life. His love went away as quickly as it sprouted and I'm afraid I love him too much to accept that. Today he deleted all our saved snaps and I firmly believe he's talking to someone else already. I don't know what to do and I'm missing him terribly. I feel so stupid for letting someone into my life just like that only for them to drop me like nothing. I wrote this to vent out but any advice is greatly appreciated.
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