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placidBunny9147
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Newbie Hub / by placidBunny9147
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 September 25th, 2024
...See more Hi everyone - please can you help me? I have posted a thread the other day but I can't find it! Literally I received notification of people posting comments and I can't find them anymore. Do you know where I can find my threads? I tried clicking on my name but nothing comes out. Probably this thread will disappear anyway eheh
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How to forgive yourself when you are the cheater
Relationship Stress / by placidBunny9147
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 September 22nd, 2024
...See more I have cheated on my partner with my ex. I don't know how to allow myself to feel less. I feel guilt and grief. Grief for the perfect relationship we had. Why did I do that? I'm in my 30s. My ex and I always had great sex however we broke up because the relationship was a rollercoaster and very toxic. I met my partner two years ago, he's the most authentic, caring, loving man ever. He is perfect. He does not have the same sex drive as my ex, but I never cared too much about it. (I'm only mentioning it because of what happened). I moved to my partner's city five months ago. I do sometimes come back home and I have messed up with my ex. Why now? Why now that I live with the most incredible guy? I can't forgive myself. Why did I cheat although I love my partner? Although everything is perfect? How do I cope and go back to what we were? I'm hating myself for what I did. I will never be able to tell him what happened because it would literally wreck his world. He did not deserve that. I don't deserve him. Please help
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