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plummetingchaos
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How to think for myself?
Anxiety Support / by plummetingchaos
Last post
 August 20th
...See more I struggle with putting myself first. My role in people's life has always been that of a caretaker. I have to be the responsible one, no matter what. I'm at a stage where I can't treat myself as a afterthought. I have to make big career and relationship decisions. My question is, how do I think for myself? How do I think that I'm a person with needs.
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Anxiety because of relationship
Anxiety Support / by plummetingchaos
Last post
 August 19th
...See more My relationship has been causing me anxiety. We've been together for 3 years. I dont get flowers, gifts, he doesnt plan dates. He earns half of what I do. I pay for most of our outing (which is okay to me). He says he loves me but also that he doesnt know how to show it. He says hes an overthinking so hes always in his head. He doesnt himself hold my hand out of fear that I might not want him to touch me. I often feel alone. He's not a bad guy but he always does nothing much for me to let me know he has feelings. I worry about a future where this continues, although he says he's working on his behaviour.
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Tired of not being cared for
Depression Support / by plummetingchaos
Last post
 August 23rd
...See more I have really disliked being the responsible one. I've been taking care of everyone around me. Nobody cares about me though. Nobody thinks about how I am or if I'm okay.
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Tired of not being cared for
Depression Support / by plummetingchaos
Last post
 August 18th
...See more I have really disliked being the responsible one. I've been taking care of everyone around me. Nobody cares about me though. Nobody thinks about how I am or if I'm okay.
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