I've been married since 2016, and it's been great until recently. Communication used to be easy with her. But now we seem to fall into argumentative discussions. I'm looking for how to stop this cycle. She is suffering from depression, anxiety, low self esteem, frequent headaches, gut problems, and obesity. I'm under a lot of stress having lost my career due to covid-19. I'm now working 2 jobs to replace my income, and don't have the time to get things done and pay attention to her as much as she deserves. Her mom passed away a few months ago. We just lost our oldest dog at the age of 15. Predators broke into our chicken coop and killed half our flock, and she blames me. I'm too busy trying to keep the mortgage paid to fix the coop, and don't have the money to just buy an upgrade.