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whats the best time ?
20 & Over / by rationalNorth8825
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 June 20th, 2024
...See more Hello! hope you are doing fine .. i have an online friend since 2014 ( when we were 15 years ) ... there were times when i vanish from his life and none of that was without reason .. and whenever i came he accepted me but as you know a part of him is annoyed ( sad ) by this, but i never left him and he is definition of being together is different and mine is different.. and since feb we havent talked and because im learning islam and that was the reason for my absence in past as well .. but he dont know because he never truly ask me why and i didnt tell him because i was afraid he might said me that okay then you go your way .. hes like this , he doesnt go after people. and we havent met , we live in same country but different city , we have exchanged gifts though.. and from my side i love him . and i want to be with him.. i know he also liked me ( dont know about now ) but because of his family problem he said he cant do anything as his brother was separated because he got married without parents consent and approval.. he is the youngest and im the elder in siblings .and its time for me to get married , and i cant think of anyone except him . he is a part of me, i cant separate him from myself. so that's basic intro .now my question is i write a letter i explained everything and told him each and everything about me and what happened in past and what's happening now , why that all happened .and also expressed my feelings and asking him to take step if he want to so we wont regret later.. i have sent this to future and he will receive in 31 December . and now im thinking is that the good time or its too late , should i send this letter more earlier like in july or august . ( one more point he's in Germany now with his brother and he moved when we were not talking during April) so will my letter overwhelm him" and i also doubt if he will read my letter or not. but i still want to send him as i dont want to regret later by thinking i didn't even try because i really want to live my life with him. please tell me whats the best time for sending letter . thank you
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