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...See more I have been with this indivodual for 1 year plus. N it has been eiddled with nasty fights. Todays fight, he has a lot of females working for him all of whom hes tried having very personal relationships with and all of whom have diseespected him in turn as they could nor find rhw difference vetween woek and feiendship. He has cpmplained to me. I now see him entering the same viscious cycle again n i have warned him . He said he is paying her its not the same. He had her doing personal runs with him like going to buy a blow up bed. I said to him he should not do same he should gwt his own membership card to do same oe i would give him mines next time hw needs to go This morning we talked of him going again and i offered my card and expressed my availability. We discussed it he nevee memrioned goin today. This evening i messaged where he was and hw told me he was in the same store qith said girl buying a washing machine n dryer. Upset i asked y he chose to call her instead of me hia significant other. At the end he said he did not care because its not tht swrious, hia sister said its ok. Am i wrong for being upset that he callwd this girl out her house to dothis, does this seem strange for a worker to voluntarily do? He males me believe im crazyand i over react for everything. Am i crazy foe feeling disrespected. This is not the first this has bewn done. He met another female after we started dating and expressed how much he likes her n wants to visit her country. I expressed my discomforr and asked that it not be them alone that he take others. He expressed undeestanding. He also qould not hop a planw ro come to me. Months later he infoemed me hw ia going and i cannot do anuthing about it. I nevee met this girl i do not know what she looks lile . I triwd vid calling he wud nevee answer. One day he callwd back to say he was changin n i heard her in d background wwn i tried to speak to him abt it. He hung up n would not answer me. N did not for 24hrs. At the end of it he told me i was jealous that he got close to her prettty quickly.. N she chose to stop messagin as much because i am insecure. Am i crazy for bein hurr by this or finding difficulty in gettimg over it

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