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Stuck on my thoughts as a wife
Relationship Stress / by rationalWheel7558
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 April 23rd, 2021
...See more I have been married with a guy whom i fell in love with13 yrs back and married to him for 8 yrs. We have 2kids. He has anxiety and panic attacks and its not easy. But still our relationship was beautiful in its own. But recently to be precise the start of pandemic i saw him watching porn regularly. Though its common i couldn't accept the fact that he was watching nude girls while lying next to me. I spoke to him about my insecurities because of that and had arguements on and off. He said my insecurities have nothing to do with it and i just have to grow up and be mature enough to accept it.. when i said its like cheating me he said that he never promised me that his fantasies would include only me. Its his basic emotion to look at images of other woman have lustful thoughts. And me asking him to quit is like depriving him of his basic emotion. And he said he would'nt trust me bcz i spyed on his phone. And said Now there is no trust and love in our relationship everything is just a transaction. And u haven't done anything for me all these years. The only thing u did was manipulate and emotionally blackmail. When asked what should i do to he said just support him. I believe i have suppoeted him in my own way though not financially. So i feel all lost and not knowing what to do further.
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