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...See more Me and my bf have been dating for almost 7 months now. Things could be better tbh I love my bf, but there were a few incidents that really got under my skin: 1: when I get anxious, I tend to raise my voice and swear. My bf doesn't like this, as to him, he sees it as me taking my anger out on him. However, when he does the EXACT SAME thing, he doesn't see a problem with it and thinks I'm crazy when I bring it up 2: one of our favorite ways to spend time together is play video games. He always take them too seriously, and blames me when things don't go his way. For example, one day we were playing together and I couldn't get past an obstacle. He got irritated, and started to belittle me and say how I don't listen, how I don't trust him, etc. I can't enjoy one of my favorite games anymore because he plays it and it reminds me of the way he treats me while we play 3: due to him belittling me, I was about to cry. To keep myself from crying, I stopped talking. When my bf tried talking to me, and I wouldn't respond, he would say I don't care about him. When I pulled myself together and told him why I wasn't talking, he accused me of lashing out on him. This is why I don't tell him things when I get depressed or anxious, because the past few times I told him he got angry and blamed me There are many more instances, but these are the ones that bothered me the most Part of me wants to think he's doing this due to his bipolar and schizophrenia, but it's gotten to the point where I fear him Should I try to get relationship counseling with him? Should I leave this relationship?

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