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[i highly suggest reading my bio before messaging me ! thank you <3 school has also made me very busy so i’m extremely sorry about the late replies]

♡ hi ! ♡

i'm rrretsuko ! i also have a few other nicknames such as "retsy", "retsu", "suko/tsuko", "ret" or just "retsuko", but you can also call me mia if you'd like :)

i love helping others and i am comfortable with providing support for just about any topic (except the ones listed under the "chats i do not take" section, thank you ! <3). though i cannot say i've had experience with every subject, i'd like to try my best with listening to others who need someone to talk to.

i have had personal experience/been medically diagnosed with the following:

MDD (major depression disorder)

DMDD (disruptive mood dysregulation disorder)

psychosis

ED (eating disorder)

on a happier note, i also love sanriomy boyfriend, animals, and music !

my availability :

green - i am online and accepting chats !

orange - i am online but either busy helping a member or in the support rooms. if you leave a message, i won't reply until i am done helping the member i am listening to at that moment or when i leave the support rooms !

red - i am offline and not responding to any messages at the moment. if you leave a message, i may take awhile to respond depending on how busy i am !

mondays - fridays : sometime throughout 9 pm EST to 4 am EST <3

saturdays and sundays : i could be accepting chats occasionally from 1 pm EST to 6 am EST, but i am normally very busy on weekends <3

my roles on cups ! :

verified listener : i have been verified by the community based on my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting ! i passed a mock chat with a mentor in order to receive this badge :)

chatroom moderator : i moderate the chatrooms for the newbie hub (teen community room 24/7, support room 24/7, and sharing circle) community and the eating disorder community to make the rooms a safe and supportive place for everyone !

sharing circle leader : i have been awarded this badge for being comitted to leading scheduled sharing circles that i successfully hosted in the past !

chats i do not take ! [please read] :

• any flirty or sexual conversations

• chats from members who are suicidal and seeking crisis support as it is against 7 cups guidelines and a big trigger for me. please refer to a hotline here instead

• chats from members who are actively self-harming and want a listener to help them resist their urgesthis is also a trigger for me and something i cannot help with as it is a crisis situation. please refer to a hotline from the list i linked above <3

• chats from members who treat me disrespectfully as it upsets me

• chats from members who are looking for someone to be their caregiver in age regression situations <3 i am completely okay with supporting people that are age regressors, but not if they try to put me in a position to take care of them as a CG or anything similar to that <3

• chats that get too graphic/detailed when describing sexual events

side notes ! [please read] :

• i am not accepting anymore long-term members <3 thank you for understanding

• i do not recommend relying on me for fast replies if you message for a casual chat or an unscheduled chat (that was not one i initially accepted)

there are chances i may not get back to you in certain circumstances. this most likely means that i am busy and unable to give you support at the time. you can find another listener here in the meantime !

• i tend to use emojis such as ❤️‘, ‘:0’, ‘:)’, and :( frequently. if this is a trigger for you, please feel free to let me know !

• i also have experience with dissociation, mania, trypophobia, insomnia, finding/questioning sexual and gender identities (i'm bisexual !), sleep paralysis, age regression (though i will never use my listener account while regressing for professionalism), toxic/abusive relationships, and sexual assault. if any of my experience (as well as the issues i have listed as direct lived experienced and have been diagnosed with) could be useful for you, let me know !

♡︎ here are some of my favorite quotes from shows/artists i love ! ♡ :

"when we keep moving, we become a little stronger every single day" ~ retsuko, aggretsuko

"no one is afraid of heights, they're afraid of falling down" ~ kurt cobain, nirvana

"if you really believe in yourself, like i always have, keep at it. and i don't care if it takes you thirty, forty, fifty years- it will happen. and it'll make you happy" ~ bradley nowell, sublime 

"if you have something to say, then say it. express yourself. break the rules" ~ trent reznor, nine inch nails

"i've come to the conclusion that life is for the taking and just too short to dwell on the negative" ~ dolores o'riordan, the cranberries

”you’ll never find peace of mind until you listen to your heart” ~ george michael

"learn to be alone, because not everyone will stay" ~ lil peep

"life shouldn't be something that's draining and long" ~ slowthai

Feedback & Reviews
Really nice and helpful and inspiring
Friendly and helpful
Very understanding and a wonderfull listener! 💞
one of my best friends here on cups yayaay thank you angel for existing
Amazing listener extremely nice and loving love them
A really understanding listener, they were kind and helpful, especially maintaining an even tone and positive outlook on the situation despite my stresses, it really helped! Very calming presence :)
She’s the nicest kindest most compassionate and supportive person in my life! Thanks soooooo much for validating me and being there for me ❤️
Really kind and understanding
Friendly, easy to talk to and passionate.
She’s nice and understanding of what I’m going through
Makes me feel understood. Helped direct me to more positive thinking. Very kind
Very good at listening supportive
shes amazing and extreamily helpful i recommend him/her 100%
Amazing listener had a great time
Amazing listener very easy to talk to!
Great I’m so happy I’ve been able to speak with this listener
very kind , waited for me to talk , very nice person . Need more people like this .
Very kind and understanding.
Suko is an awesome listener. I feel a ton better after talking to her, She asks the right questions, and is great at reflecting. It actually feels like she is listening. Glad to have this individual in my life!
Kind and awesome to chat to
So kind and warm!! Great listener really knows how to cheer you up and make you feel good about yourself! :)
Really feels likes she's there for you every step of the way.
She is a real nice person. She helped me a lot. She is the best ❤
Super nice and understanding. Tried to relate to my issue and be open minded.
I loved to chat with them! I was so stressed, and they helped me focusing on something else :D I'm really thankful! They were so nice to me
amazing! listened to my problems and tried to help!!
her reply not fast but she good i see=))
mia is so kind c:
she was very nice she heard me out! she told me its okay! i thank you so much
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Extremely helpful and kind
she is an amazing, helpful, understanding, honest, and kind person who is always willing to listen no matter what. she is an incredible person and an even more incredible friend.
The best person I’ve ever met , she’s helped me a lot and I cant thank her enough. I like her alotttttt
She always knows exactly what to say🥺she is amazing and one of the best listeners I’ve had. Thank you so much Retsuko
Rrretsuku is a great listener! She is very supportive and I feel much happier and less anxious after I talk to her.
an amazing person and super helpful, made me feel wayy better and is a genuine sweetheart.
Really nice and good listener
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