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sarah253
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PathStep 6 Compassion hearts23 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes20 Current upvotes20 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2025 Member sinceDecember 15, 2021
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I’m 19 and my gf is 28
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by sarah253
Last post
 November 4th, 2022
...See more Hii I’m currently an university sophomore (19) and my gf just turned 28. I’m just wondering how this relationship is seen as weird because of this age gap. So far this age gap isn’t a big problem but I sometimes feel like she wants a very long term relationship whereas I also wanna have different experiences with different people because this is my very first relationship (I mean I’m not expecting to marry her or anything like this). id be so glad if you drop your thoughts on this :) thanks!
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Constantly feeling like I’m an outsider
35 & Over Community / by sarah253
Last post
 September 17th, 2022
...See more Hello, I’m Sarah and I’m Japanese studying in some European country. Been here for like 2 weeks and a few days but I always feel like I’m an outsider and don’t belong to anywhere. First, an apartment( it’s more like dork thought) I’m living has sooo many Spanish speakers and they always speak Spanish and I’m the only Asian here. I need to see them every single day and it’s kinda stressful tbh. Even though in asian community(there are some sort of asian group is formed in my college which I think is pretty common thing to happen?) I don’t feel comfortable to be there. It’s not like I don’t like people in dorm or in college I mean I actually like them but always feels awkward and uncomfortable. I honestly don’t mind being alone but idk it’s really hard to explain. Maybe it’ll be getting better as times goes by but now everyday is so freaking stressful. So like my question is: how can I cope with this kinda complicated feelings? Thanks for reading till the end any answers would be appropriating :))
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I’m not enough for anyone
35 & Over Community / by sarah253
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 February 22nd, 2022
...See more I can’t specify exactly what happened, but after two major things happened, I feel like I’m so useless and not enough for anyone. One is about my friend and the other is about my part time job. Like literally anyone. No matter how hard I try, things went badly. And the more I try to fix them, the more they get exacerbated. At this point I don’t fucking now what to do anymore
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Is it also categorized as self-harm??
Self-Harm Recovery / by sarah253
Last post
 February 8th, 2022
...See more Hi I’ve been wondering hair pulling can be categorized as one type of self harm bc I’ve been suffering from it for more than 6 years and I finally started doing my research and found some articles categorizing it as self harm or say it’s considered as OCD and this scared me so much. So to make sure if I can talk about it in this thread, I’d like to know how you guys think! any ideas are welcomed and I’d be so glad if someone who has the same struggle comments here :)
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Daughter and father relationship
35 & Over Community / by sarah253
Last post
 January 6th, 2022
...See more My father (I literally don’t want to call me FATHER though) was quite abusive against me and my mom. It reached its peak when I was 10-14 I guess. But for the last few years it seems that he’s trying to fix our relationship, which is obviously impossible. I was once almost killed by him. And today, he was preaching me and said “it’s okay you hate me” I literally cannot understand why he can say that because there’s no reason not to hate him after all those things happened. And I am having the hardest time to process my emotions and how I can deal with my father rest if my life. I do want to live my life without him but still he pays my bills so seems I have no option. have some advice or does anyone have similar experience?
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I fing hate myself
35 & Over Community / by sarah253
Last post
 December 29th, 2021
...See more been disappointed at myself
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Hi
Self-Harm Recovery / by sarah253
Last post
 December 18th, 2021
...See more Hi I’m Sarah! I’m 18 and recovering from self-harm. Nice to meet y’all :)
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