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...See more Hi all, I've been seeing a guy for 2 months, we've been on lots of dates, stayed over at eachothers places, been vulnerable. We've not slept together yet but have been physical. He's invited me to gigs that are 2 months away, made date plans and just generally shown all the signs of someone really supportive. Yesterday I didn't hear from him all day which is odd for us, especially as he wasn't working. Late afternoon he tells me about his day with family he had and all the drama so I thought oh okay makes sense no worries. I told him I was feeling a bit down and asked if we could watch a film over phone call. I got a message back saying I don't want to watch a film but we can call later. I was bit put out by this as there was no empathy or niceness in the message. I texted later saying I was free and I've heard nothing since, no phone call, not seen my messages. And he's put up Instagram stories of the music he's listening to so he's clearly fine. It's all so confusing because yesterday we talked about a possible date and days beforehand he's inviting me to things and showing me his December schedule for work so I'll know when he's free for dates. And now it's like he's vanished? If he needs some space fine but at least tell me? Communicate? Am I being crazy here for asking for a little more engagement and acting like my feelings are important? Don't mind a bit of straight talking with this! Amy

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