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scarletTree6621
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Is it controlling so send this to my ex whom I want to be friends with?
Relationship Stress / by scarletTree6621
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 March 18th, 2025
...See more My ex and I ended on bad terms, she said from the start she probably wants to be friends in the future. Now we are 3 months into the future and she still dont event want to text og talk. I haven’t been able to think about anything other then the friendship and it’s ruining my life. She has said to me that if I start hanging out with a person we know that we will never be friends and I listent. Now I have the same feelings about someone she can’t do stuff with if we can be friends. She has a ex witch she became friends with asien 3 days after we broke up, and the first time they met after our breakup. Now she slept at his home saying it side by mean anything and that she just did it for practical reason because he held the party and she still wants to be friends and hope it doesn’t effect me anyhow. Then she got mad that I texted that it effected me, like our relationship never ment anything and she just walks back to the ex as soon as we are over. After she then texts me she wants to sleep at his place acorn but he isent the one holding the party which just shows she lied the first time about the practical she actually texted it was only becouse he held it and if the other held it she would sleep at there house. But now that they do she still wants to slip at he’s house. Is it wrong of me to text her I can’t be her friend with her while she sleeps at his house?, I can’t handle getting at a good state with her and then not being able to see her in her eyes when she horse back to her ex. A friendship is just not fitting I think, what should I do?
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Friends after breakup?
Relationship Stress / by scarletTree6621
Last post
 March 17th, 2025
...See more I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago, I was told every time we were together that I was a bad boyfriend and she would actually rather talk to other boys but I loved her and tried to do my best. In the end I startet hating myself and talked to a friend, and she talked me into breaking up with her after we had tried talking about it. After I wanted to become her friend but every time I try to be nice and tell her good things about her og such things she answers with a text meant to irritate me of hurt me, and if I answer back she tells me now she hates me even more but won’t unfriend more or anything becouse she thinks a friendship in the future would be possible. I have now been hoping for this friendship for 3 months, she slept at my friends home alone and cuddle with one other of my friends, we are in the same friend group and then she said she doesent want to be my friend if I get mad about things like that. And I just really love every second with her, but can’t seem to not ruin it. Maybe I’m writing too long will stop here.
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